Sometimes a woman herself does not even realize that by some of her behavior she repels men from herself. It seems that she looks attractive all the time, well-groomed, does not start herself, but all the same, after some time of communication with her, the men run wherever their eyes look. What's the matter? Want to know!
Telling you about how you push men away from you
You don't think you're good enough
Men love self-confident women who value themselves, respect and love themselves. If a woman considers herself somehow unworthy, and not very good, then men begin to think so. Absolutely everything starts with the perception of oneself. When you apologize every 5 minutes for your steps and words, it shows your insecurity. If you created a positive picture in your head, you would spontaneously become better long ago. In the meantime, men try to avoid communicating with you.
You do not like a specific person, but a certain type
Everyone, probably, has their own ideal of appearance and behavior of the opposite sex, but one cannot fit everyone under such a template. You have in your head a picture of a handsome Bond, a noble gentleman, strong and courageous, but when you face reality, you suddenly realize that you don’t like anyone. Because men do not correspond to your ideals. You like a man, and he fits your ideal, but then you suddenly realize that he is not at all like that, and you do not want to continue your relationship with him. Tell me, would you like it if men left you as soon as they began to realize that you are not the perfect Barbie?
Do you like the forbidden fruit
You like the forbidden fruit, and when a man begins to pay attention to you, cares about you, then he ceases to be interesting for you.
You pretend to be who you are not
Despite the fact that Instagram is now replete with photos of girls with pumped lips, extended eyelashes, eyebrow tattoo, which look like a carbon copy, men still love natural women who do not adjust to other people's standards and are confident in their beauty. So don't go overboard.
You analyze everything too much
You worry about everything, you suspect everyone, and it cannot be hidden in any way, it betrays your body language, and also the fact that you write to your boyfriend often and annoyingly.
You inform everyone about your relationship too soon.
You don't know each other very well with a man yet, but you've had a couple of dates and you've already started telling everyone that he's your boyfriend. You have not yet developed a stable strong relationship, and on the Internet you are already a super strong and happy couple. And men are repelled! Where are you in a hurry?
You only have sexual chemistry
This is evidenced by your appearance, short skirts, deep neckline, languid eyes and plump lips. Of course, it is very important that you match each other in bed, but a man wants to feel an intellectual and emotional connection with a woman. If you just look so that men want you, they will not perceive you as anything other than as a girl for the night.
You fall in love with bad guys all the time.
I think this is the lot of young girls, but it's time for you to grow up. It is in the movies that bandits like Sasha Bely from the Brigade seem so amazing, and the relationship with them is romantic. But in reality, it is impossible to build a relationship with such, and it does not end with anything good.
You have no life outside of relationships
You get hung up on a man, and forget about the life that exists besides him. Men are intimidated and repulsed by such importunity.
You have no ambitions and goals in life.
In your 30-35 years, you should not only set a goal of how to find a husband. This is stupid girls!
Now you know how you can alienate men. I hope you won't make these mistakes!
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