There is such a tendency. Men can leave the family without hesitation, but women think for a long time before breaking off a relationship. They often think for such a long time that by the time they leave, they are so exhausted and exhausted that they can no longer build a new relationship, and do not want to.
In this article I will try to describe situations in which marriage is not worth saving. And save a few years of life for women who are hoping for a miracle, which with a 99% probability will not happen.
So, let's begin. What relationships are not worth your life?
1. If your man is addicted and this affects the whole family.
He may be addicted to games, substances or strong drinks. It can be interesting and even funny at first. Some women get involved in this man's game and are drawn in the same way.
If you were smart enough not to fall for this bait, understand once and for all that even drug treatment does not guarantee that a person will quit the addiction and get rid of addiction forever. You will live in constant tension and expectation of a breakdown. It is very difficult and can end in severe disappointment after many years.
2. If he is a womanizer and does not even try to hide it.
He is always surrounded by women. Most likely, they surrounded him during your acquaintance, it is possible that for this you fell in love with him. More precisely, not for the women around, but because of the desire to possess such a popular man.
And when he chose you, it seemed to you that you were special and began to tolerate his flirting and informal communication with other women. Sometimes it seems to you that you are the third one. But, you can not say anything - you have already chosen your role.
If you continue to endure, then perhaps your marriage will last a long time. But, there is a very high probability that one day he will come across a cunning madam on his way and take your place. And it will happen at the most unexpected moment. And it will definitely be excruciatingly painful!
3. If your man is lazy and constantly in search of himself.
Such men do not work most of their lives. They complain about employers, about the country and not fairness towards them in general. They do not see problems in themselves, but shift the responsibility for everything that happens to others.
They are not looking for ways to solve problems, they are only looking for excuses to continue doing nothing.
If you are satisfied that the provision of the family rests on your shoulders, then there are no questions. But, life with such a man will never be easy. You will always feed him and dress him, listen to whining and excuses. The plus is that most likely he will never leave you, he will just be lazy. But he will always be dependent on you and rest assured that if you need his help, you will not get it. But when that happens, it will be too late.
The types of male behavior described above are incorrigible in 99.9% of cases. And only you can decide whether it is worth spending your life on such a relationship.
