While her daughter was little, Nadya was in no hurry to go on long trips with her. And then vacation, summer, money is all right, and Masha is already five years old. It's time to take her to the sea. Masha was never seasick, and this time she endured the trip both by plane and by bus very well.
Nadia decided to take the baby for a swim. There were a lot of mothers on the plane, even with babies, who were capricious and crying all the way. Nadya is more than calm about all this, she understands that kids can be really capricious. And even many adults do not tolerate the flight. But the woman's neighbor, on the contrary, was not at all satisfied with such a flight. She made a real scandal that even babies were silent!
- How your children enrage me! Do you know why they are all yelling at you? Due to stress! Yes, yes, they have real stress! Don't you understand this or what? You mothers are used to thinking only of yourself! Why don't you comfort your children? You do not know how to do this, which means that there is nothing to fly with them at sea. Didn't you take them to the sea too early! - the woman screamed, and everyone around thought she was crazy.
At first Nadia was very stressed by this woman, because she considered herself to be guilty in the situation. Well, for the fact that she took the child to the sea. But the neighbor had no complaints about her, she herself told Nadya about it. They got into a conversation, and it turned out that Nadina's new acquaintance was not an old moron, but a pediatrician with experience.
And she screamed because she was simply sorry for all these children. Galina Alekseevna, that was the name of the woman, she said with an anguish in her voice:
- These children were taken from their favorite warm beds, they were dragged into this stuffy uncomfortable plane, they were put next to a large bunch of people they did not know at all. Of course, they are all uncomfortable, they are afraid. Lord, they are still quite crumbs, and due to their age they cannot sunbathe and swim in the sea! It is the parents who dream about it, but the children do not need it yet!
Nadia listened and understood what the pediatrician was talking about. After all, she herself was in no hurry to take Masha to the sea, she kept thinking that it was too early for her, and she would not understand anything, would not remember anything. And to drag her to the edge of geography in order to look at the sea... but why does a stupid baby need it? And Galina Alekseevna did not calm down:
- This is what mothers want to go to the beach, they want food to be served to them, they want to do nothing, but lie on the beach and drink cocktails! But who will think of children? For them, the best option is to rest with their grandmother in the country. You can be patient at least up to two years, - the woman turned to the passengers, - The kid should enjoy the trip, and not cry! Many families live without the sea for years! But what is really there, many adults in general have never seen the sea in their eyes, and nothing, they live somehow!
Galina Alekseevna spoke exclusively about resorts, because sometimes a situation arises that it is necessary to fly somewhere. For example, moving, medical treatment, visiting relatives - this is definitely not stipulated.
Probably, many will disagree with this opinion, but Nadia even supported that woman, though she was silent away from sin, she did not want to get into a conflict. One mother began to be indignant:
- And why am I now up to two years old in the city, perhaps? Actually, if you are not in the know, sea air is very useful!
But in fact, the sea air is not so useful if the child is under real stress during the trip!
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