When women are not in a relationship, they love to talk about their boundaries and inhibitions. They know exactly what they don't accept in a relationship and what they will never tolerate. But, as soon as they fall in love, then all this is forgotten and goes somewhere into the background. There is a kind of stupid belief that one must fight for love, one must make sacrifices and concessions.
How much are you willing to endure before finally realizing that your relationship has no future? How long will you make concessions and wait for everything to be fine in your relationship? No need to deny and wave your hand. Sometimes the right decision is to leave, to save yourself, without lowering your own standards for the sake of someone who does not deserve it at all.
There are alarm bells coming from men who directly say that your relationship has no future!
Strange relationship with ex
Yes, there is nothing in staying with an ex or ex in good relations, so to speak, friends. But it’s completely wrong when your man crosses that line. He calls up with his ex, giggles at her SMS, meets with her periodically. And you told him that you dislike their frequent communication, but he brushes you off. She seems to be more important to him than you. If he generally spends more time with his ex than with you, then you have every reason to leave him, because he neglects you for her sake, and not vice versa.
He deliberately makes you jealous.
You may not even be one of the jealous, but your partner is "doing" something that you have to worry. He wants you to fight for him, so he flirts with other women, calls up, sees them. He seems to want you to achieve him, to be good enough for him. The partner compares you to other ladies, sets them up for you, in which case you have only one option - to part with him as soon as possible. He is immature and not worthy of your energy and your time. He's also not sure of himself, and wants you to feel the same way.
He humiliates you
It can be expressed in different ways. For example, he makes you feel guilty. You all say the wrong thing, and he points it out to you, claiming that you are wrong, you are exaggerating everything, you do not understand anything, etc. He manipulates you, and you cannot change anything, it will always be so. He puts himself above you, and that is true humiliation.
He treats you badly
Until he gets what he wants, he is loving and kind with you. And then he turns into a toxic person, a manipulator, and can even allow himself to be violent towards you. Trust me, it will not change and it will only get worse over time!
He is selfish
He always thinks only of himself, and he ignores your needs. It seems that you are definitely not in the first place. He is not interested in how you are doing, what you want, how you feel, he does not appreciate what you do for him.
He lies to you all the time
Unfortunately, there are people who simply cannot help but lie. Perhaps you only once caught your man in a lie, and then suddenly realized that he was constantly lying to you. And then you lose absolutely all trust in him. Even if he promises to improve, he still lies to you again and again.
Someone will say that we are all imperfect, not without sin, that we still need to sometimes make concessions for the sake of relationships. But, if in your relationship there is what I have just described, you will not be able to maintain an alliance with a man for a long time. And if I were you, I would not even try to do it. You should not waste your time on someone who does not value you and who does not value you!
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