Previously, the relationship between a man and a woman was based on gender roles: a man should take the first step, a man proposes a relationship, a man gives compliments. But we live in the modern world, and now everything is completely different. We are not in a fairy tale in which a man takes care of a woman, surprises her, saves her from trouble, we live in reality. Why are there so many single ladies now? Not because they have inflated demands on men, but because they are afraid to take the first step. But a man sometimes needs to say something head-on so that he understands what you want.
Psychologists give 3 effective tips to help any woman get to know a man comfortably. It's just that no matter how confident you are in yourself, it is always very difficult to take the first step. We are afraid to seem intrusive, desperate, assertive. We are afraid to scare off a man precisely because we believe that this is not a "woman's" business.
Imagine you met a man, you really like him, you let your spell enter. You smile, look at him, flirt, hoping that he will come up to you and get to know you. Sometimes it works very well and sometimes it doesn't work at all! That is why, when your spell has failed, it is time to take a step forward.
Here are some tips from psychologists. Getting to know comfort and forgetting about gender attitudes from the past!
Change your mind
Immediately drive away from yourself the attitudes from the past that women are never the first to get acquainted, that only men should do this. Do not think that if you take the first step, it will mean that you are running after a man. This is not all! Just starting a conversation does not mean that you are running after someone. On the contrary, you will show the man that, if he wants, he can run after you! Do you feel the difference?
Probably no one likes to be refused. And sometimes a man just needs to know that a woman is interested in communicating with him, and he will already lead further. Will the only thought that now he will come to a woman, and she will simply refuse him in front of everyone's eyes, will heal all desire, and that's it? Therefore, it is worth throwing the bait!
Compliment
According to psychologists, if a woman does not know where to start a conversation at all, but she really wants to start talking, then she needs to come up with some kind of compliment! Yes, men love compliments too. You can say something about his shoes, shirt, or maybe his smile! This will be very pleasant for the man, and after the compliment there will be just a minimal probability of rejection. If a man is interested in you, then he will definitely continue to communicate with you. Well, you should be prepared for the fact that a man can just say "thank you", and then continue to go about his business. In this case, you will know for sure that you are not on the way with him. But there is no need to be afraid, stop yourself, immediately tune in to the bad. Be more confident in yourself!
Write your phone number
And this is advice for very brave women. So that your acquaintance does not end at an awkward moment, write your phone number to the man on a piece of paper. Just write and hand it to him with the words: "I really liked our communication, and I would not mind continuing it next time." Well, then it will be up to him. And here it is worth adding that the number must be written on a piece of paper, you don’t need to dial it right away in the man’s phone so that you don’t have his number. And then suddenly you want to write him some stupid SMS later! It is important to wait for a step from him, you did everything you could!
Bolder girls!
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