Envy is a very bad feeling. Of course, first of all, she eats the envious person from the inside. After all, he is very tormented, knowing that someone is much better than him. But, you must admit, it is unpleasant when a person smiles in your eyes, but he envies. Maybe he does curses at you there.
Do you know for sure that absolutely everyone in your environment wishes you only the best? The fact is that you can independently identify the envious person. Let's say there was some kind of pleasantness in your life. You share your joy with loved ones, that's all. Everything starts to fall out of your hands, you feel emptiness, and in general some kind of black streak begins, real chaos. Does this sound familiar to you? Well, then, let's continue. If you have such situations are not uncommon, then in your immediate environment there are definitely people who envy you, and they poison your life with their envy!
There are 8 signs that the envious person is near you. I do not know what you will do with him, most likely you will stop communicating, deleting it from your life. And this is the right step. To do this, you will have to specifically analyze everything so as not to mistake a wolf for a sheep and vice versa. If you have identified an envious person, but cannot stop communicating with him completely, for example, if he is your relative, then at least keep communication to a minimum.
Signs that someone close to you is jealous
- The person compliments you, but you intuitively feel it is disingenuous. Everything is simple here. When an envious person says pleasant words to you, you may notice that he is trying to please you, flattering you, groveling in front of you. The feigned joy looks very unpleasant.
- The person does not take all your successes seriously. Well, think about it, you got a promotion, you bought a car, you are going to the registry office - so-so, dubious achievements. The envious person will try to discount your progress. I bought a car - expensive, which means that you will go broke for parts, or cheap - you could have bought something more impressive. Promoted at work - you will be tortured to plow, and the increased salary - so, not particularly weighty. Well, and so on, you get the idea, I hope.
- A person is trying with all his might to outshine you, ascribing to himself sometimes even non-existent achievements. So he pulls the attention of others to himself, and again belittles your success. Have you seen this? I'm all such a rat, well done, but what are you? Just think, you have been promoted, here I have a job - in general, sugar. And everything is in the same spirit!
- The person starts to imitate you. Let's say he begins to copy your style of dress, your manners, and passes it off as his own.
- The person seems to be in competition with you. You achieve something, he too, you buy something, he also. He wants to prove with all his might that he is better than you.
- A person is pleased with your failures and mistakes. He, of course, tries to hide his feelings, but he is not very good at it. Your mistakes give him real pleasure, although he seems to make a sympathetic look.
- A person admires you, but only in your eyes, and behind your back he throws mud at you, condemns, insults, and makes fun of you.
- The person truly hates you, even though he has no reason to do so.
You should not mess with an envious person, try to make friends with him or like him. Such people need to be unconditionally deleted from your life, and that's it. As soon as you stop communicating with the envious, your life will immediately improve!
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