When a man begins to disrespect his woman, offends and insults her, he puts himself in danger. He risks losing absolutely everything that he has. There is no mysticism here, and there is no need to wave your hand, they say, everything is wrong in our relationship. This is a philosophy of life and ordinary psychology.
Here are some examples from real life. Alexander II did a lot for the country. But he treated his wife with disdain. He got a mistress, she bore him children, and she lived right in the king's palace on the second floor. And the famous scientist Landau took various ladies into the house right in front of his wife. Yes, he was brilliant, but weak in the causal place. Alexander Sergeevich Pushkin visited "merry houses", and then returned home and shared everything that was happening to him with his wife! Do all men cheat? Yes, well, who told you such nonsense? In our society, it is generally accepted that if a man is a "man", then he is cheating on anyone. Smart people do not walk, and they treat their wives normally, respect them. And to sleep with another - this is already disrespect.
So what about famous people? Landau then got run over by a car, became disabled, and his wife looked after him... a poor woman. Alexander II was killed by terrorists. And Pushkin was dying right in the arms of his wife after that very duel. There are a great many such examples from life. Say what a coincidence? Well no.
By their behavior, these individuals caused their spouses great suffering, and they loved them with all their hearts. The men were simply punished by the Higher Forces, because they humiliated and offended their wives. They lowered them below the plinth, put them on the lowest step.
Men do it themselves. They put their women last. The spouse ceases to be a friend, support, partner for them. They themselves refuse it all. From a loved one, a woman turns into some kind of faithful dog, a slave who serves her master. The owner can caress her, or he can kick her somewhere far away again. And he is not at all ashamed of her, because they are not ashamed of slaves!
From a friend, a woman turns into a servant, she becomes a being of a lower order. But a man condemns himself to loneliness by his behavior. He humiliates the closest person, and now he is alone. He has no one to share his secret with, he should not wait for support, protection, no one will convince him, no one will argue with him. Because everything, there is no equal relationship, there is only a relationship of the format: master and slave.
There was a friend, but now there is a pet. There was a beloved woman, but she became a servant. The most important thing that a man deprives himself of in such a relationship is unconditional love and unconditional support. He has only a devoted slave, not a friend.
It turns out that the man is in a relationship, but he is alone. Lonely means vulnerable. Now he can easily be hurt, deceived, attacked. He has to fight the enemies one on one. But he could have had an excellent faithful friend who would go into fire and water for him.
Real female support cannot be replaced by anything else! Women know how to feel people, they have excellent intuition, they are able to see signs.
This is why truly successful men respect and cherish their women. They know that only a woman can be the most faithful friend, and, of course, she is a loved one.
Respect for your woman is the key to success for every man, as well as it is the key to a long life. It is very easy to offend a loved one, humiliate him, hurt him for a living. But then it is very difficult to return everything to its place, and then you can lose everything that is now.
Appreciate and love your women, dear men!
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