Recently, you can hear from women who have already celebrated their fiftieth birthday that they are not going to get married. It would seem that youth has passed, the spouse left / divorced / died, time passed and healed his wounds, it could be down the aisle again. After all, old age alone is boring, uninteresting, and, probably, stupid. As they say, a person needs a person! The children have grown up, and they no longer need a mother, especially an aging one, all have their own families, have children, a career. But why then no one is in a hurry to get married?
And once again I came across a post of one woman. Svetlana is 57 years old, she is married, the children have grown up, and she decided to build her own happiness. The first husband died long ago, and now the devil pulled her to marry again. It happened several years ago. An interesting man, a military pensioner, well-groomed, children are adults, divorced, has his own home. He is the same age as Svetlana.
In principle, Svetlana was not led by a man's money, she is a wealthy woman herself. It's just that loneliness began to eat her, even her beloved cat was no longer happy. So that man, his name was, by the way, Nikolai, courted so beautifully, spoke beautiful words. And Svetlana thought, why not. I thought that it would be beautiful to grow old with my Kolenka, they would rest together, travel, have fun. She had so many plans for the future. But everything turned out to be completely different from what the woman thought.
After the wedding, Svetlana moved to Nikolai, and began to rent out her apartment. After a while, she greatly regretted it. Firstly, the man had no plans to turn into an exemplary family man in his old age. He was in no hurry to do nothing around the house, neither ask to nail a shelf, nor wash it, even just put things in a typewriter and then hang them up. And Nikolai also began to force the woman to take care of his nutrition, and this is calculating calories, selecting products, all steamed, in the oven. Was this what Svetlana had hoped for? At first she paid no attention to it, but then her days turned to horror.
Secondly, Svetlana began to see her children and grandchildren less often. Nikolai said that they should take a break from parental worries, and can already live for themselves. So it was, he lived for himself, read newspapers and watched TV all day, and Svetlana was busy with the housework. And the last straw was the appearance of his grandson in Nikolai's apartment. The woman's surprise knew no bounds when her husband said that the boy would now live with them. He is a first grader, his parents were called on a business trip, and he will have to live with them. The boy was safely thrown onto the shoulders of his grandfather, and he decided to shift the care of the student onto the shoulders of his wife.
And you probably know what a first grader is? In the morning, wake him up, take him to school, feed him, take a walk, do his homework with him. And it would be fine if he had his own, dear, and then also a stranger, and Svetlana herself has two second-graders granddaughters. The woman was not going to play mom in her old age, and again raise children. And now her life has turned into a real hard labor.
What kind of travel are there? The couple did not go further than the dacha, and Svetlana, even before this marriage, lived so happily, at ease, did what she wanted, lived entirely for herself. And then the devil pulled her to go to the registry office!
It turns out that her life after marriage only worsened. Household worries have become much more, there is less time for oneself, and also a burden in the form of someone else's granddaughter and husband, who decided to do proper nutrition. Svetlana increasingly began to think about divorce.
I don't know how this story ended, but I think the ending is obvious. You know, smart uncles say that it is much more difficult for women after 50 to get married. What do they rely on, statistics? Do you know why, according to statistics, women are less likely to get married at the age of 50? Not because they are not taken. And because they don't need it! Why do they need such hemorrhoids in their old age?
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