At 40, the woman is still young, but already experienced and wise enough. This is the age when a person already knows exactly his priorities and values. By the age of 40, people open themselves up, but I want to know some things much earlier.
Here they are
You need to love yourself
By the age of 40, women suddenly realize that it was always necessary to love yourself in the first place, take care of yourself, pamper yourself, and also accept yourself as you are. This is what could have saved from many problems and mistakes. If you want to be loved, then you first need to love yourself, become self-confident, accept yourself, even with flaws. That's when you will be happy! If a woman does not love herself, she can tolerate a bad attitude towards herself and even violence! If she does not accept herself, then she allows others to use her. This is wrong, and, unfortunately, this truth comes to women in the second half of their lives.
You need to get to know yourself
Find out what interests you, what you like, what you want, what gives you pleasure. Open up your passions, don't blindly follow others. Don't be afraid to try something new if it makes you feel happy and warm inside.
You have to accept your flaws
Every person has flaws, there are no ideal ones! And your flaws should make you stronger. Don't underestimate yourself because of negative sides or traits, you are capable of more than you think!
I need close people
A person needs a person next to him, it is difficult to survive alone. You should have people with whom you are calm and comfortable, with whom you may meet occasionally and discuss something. These people will not judge you, they will not criticize you. Be sure to have such a relationship, they are important to you!
Don't please others, live for yourself
When you take care of people for a very long time, they, firstly, cease to appreciate it, and, secondly, there is no time left for themselves at all. Understand that you cannot make everyone around you happy, but you can! Remember: the happier you are, the happier the people around you are!
Don't waste your life worrying
Only by the age of 40 comes the realization that life is short. Do you know exactly when it comes to us? When sores begin to creep out, when you want to go to bed early, when you think a hundred times before drinking a glass of wine. In general, everything that in her youth a woman could afford, now she can no longer, but before that she thinks. And also comes the realization that part of my life was spent on experiences, stupid nerves. Try to pay attention to the good, and do not fight for something if you understand that you cannot change it.
Need to travel more
Do you know travel is soothing and relaxing? Everyday life is very exhausting for us, and we are no longer able to appreciate what it actually offers us. Travel to get distracted, to possibly change your outlook. Traveling is a feeling of freedom, an opportunity to explore the world.
Expect less
High expectations are gloom. You don't have to expect anything from anyone if you want to be content and happy with your life. Believe in yourself, do not expect magic from others, otherwise you will be disappointed.
No need to compare yourself to others
In general, I would advise you to look less at Instagram posts where people post the happy moments of their lives. Sometimes everything that you see on the Internet is not always true, but only window dressing. If you compare yourself to others, you can completely kill your own self-esteem. Appreciate what you have, thank fate for what it has given you, and do not complain if you do not have something.
Don't need too many compromises
If you know how to smooth out conflicts and can compromise, this is, of course, good. But everything should be in moderation. Compromises should come from two sides, and if they come only from you, then it turns out that you neglect your desires and needs.
You know, it's never too late to start changing something, right? Maybe it's time to do it in order to become happy?
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