We do not choose our friends. Or do we choose? It's just that sometimes a friendly relationship is so addictive that we, even realizing that it is unpleasant for us to communicate with a person, that he is hurting us, has a bad effect on us, we cannot break it all. In general, friendship is an amazing thing, but only if it is real and sincere. But there are poisonous friends whom it is time to exclude from your life!
These are the friends whom it is high time to "get rid of"!
Flimsy friends
These are friends who promise, but do not fulfill, are very unreliable, always late. Don't think that these are just cute quirks of people close to you. In fact, this only means one thing, the person does not value you, he does not think about you. If he doesn't respect your time, then he doesn't respect you either.
If your friend puts your priorities in last place, it's time to tell him that it is at least ugly to behave this way.
Reckless friends
Probably, everyone has such acquaintances who are always ready to participate in some dubious events, incidents, and they do it on a regular basis. And, it would seem, this is their own business, but why do they involve their friends in this? Again, this is disrespectful. They want fun, and they drag you along. An adult will communicate with responsible and emotionally stable people, but unreasonable behavior is characteristic only of adolescents.
Energy vampires
A lot of articles have been raised on the topic of communication with energy vampires. And the result is one - you need to stop communicating with such. You know, there are friends with whom it is very difficult to communicate, they only talk about themselves, bring you to emotions, constantly in a pessimistic mood, and you are doused with negativity. Point out to the person his inappropriate behavior. Only it is unlikely that you will be able to change it, there is only one option - to stop all communication with the energy vampire.
Attention seekers
Of course, in small amounts, the drama is very interesting. But there are people who are capable of making it out of everything. They inflate a whole concert out of everything, solve their problems brightly and theatrically, constantly cry because of some circumstances. It’s not good, and it’s very contagious. By the way, you run the risk of forever becoming the same person who will wipe away tears of friends, a kind of pillow for tears,
Competitors
If you notice that your friends are behaving strangely, as if competing with you, then they also have no place in your life. This is a banal envy on their part. They want to be better than you in everything. You get a good job, they are looking for something cooler for themselves, you buy some thing for yourself, they are also in a hurry to get the same, only more expensive, more impressive. So, if your friends are competing with you, then get ready for the fact that they will constantly interrupt you and brag about their own achievements.
Friends who don't make an effort
In any relationship, you need to try, work, do something to develop them. And this applies just to friends. Friendship needs the work of both! Otherwise, the result is a one-sided game. Understand that true friends will always do everything for your joy and happiness! Otherwise, you shouldn't even talk to them.
Tell us in the comments, do you have such friends? Maybe you have communicated with them before, but realized in time that you are not on your way together?
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