Now parents are not the same as, say, 20 years ago. They consider themselves the smartest, best, all-knowing. Of course, because now everything that is needed can be found using the Internet. Why should such parents receive advice from the outside? They all know very well themselves, and love to lecture anyone, if only there is a reason. And for them, other people's children are some kind of aliens, but their relatives are the center of the Universe. The whole world should revolve around their sons and daughters, everyone should admire the beauty of their babies, their success. And it is a pity that modern parents have completely forgotten about any rules of decency. Well, not all, of course, but many! You can shower me with slippers right now, but first I'll tell you what I'm crucifying here about.
I worked for a small company. And on the same floor there were 16 people, 11 of whom were women, including me. There were divorces, and married with children, like me, and ladies at the age of already with grandchildren, and then one day a young mother came out of the decree. This was her second decree, and for some reason she decided that now she knows absolutely everything about raising children, and she also has the right to haughtily look at others and give out her clever advice.
This woman has someone to leave her babies with. She is always helped by her mother and mother-in-law. And she, so poor, is forced to work, and sees little of her sons. As we all understood, she didn't bother herself especially with motherhood, because grandmothers were always on hand 24/7.
So right during working hours, not paying attention to her colleagues and their work, this lady called her friends and consulted about baby food, diapers and snot. She could sit on the phone for hours and read her mother's lectures on caring for babies. It was unusual at first, and then it began to strain.
Why did the whole floor need to know how many times a day a child should poop, how to feed him, and what in no case should be, what vaccinations to give, and which ones are better to refrain from, and so on? Here is where this line of decency is, why has it been erased? This is an elementary disrespect for others. In addition, I have always believed that there should be some kind of intimacy in the life of the kids, why bash about everything about friends and the whole work team? I think at least all our employees could safely do without such information.
I do not argue that for every mother her child is the most beautiful in the world. I myself have two children, and I have always loved and loved them, even when they were crumpled up to their ears, dirty, capricious. I still admire my children, but why impose my admiration on others? What for? Why do many mothers run from corner to corner with a photograph of their child, show what kind of way he is, what he is wearing, and how many months / years he is here. The surrounding people somehow don't care.
So modern parents, or rather "YAZHEMATERY" do not know any boundaries at all. I am twice a mother, but I have never made a heroine out of myself. But many modern mothers believe that they should almost erect a monument. That they gave birth to a child, learned the basics of care, and now they are the masters of this world!
So that colleague sometimes did not have time to complete all the tasks assigned to her in a day, but she managed to consult all her friends, as well as tell a lot of stories about her kids always. And every day she told everything, told that it seemed as if she had not two there, but as many as 10! Well, okay, she just told, so she literally demanded that the team admire her stories, knowledge and kids, and also showed sympathy for her, as for an employee, because she is a young mother. She's a mother!
Do you know, it is such women, such "YAZHEMATERI" that generate hatred in people for other people's children? Agree now?
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