Repeatedly we hear that personal space is important for every person, and, being in a relationship, it is necessary to give it to your partner. But, how not to overdo it, and not to lose your man at all, giving him too much space?
At first, when a relationship is just starting, you want to spend all your free time together. And then the moment comes when each of you needs a lot more personal space. As statistics show, men need more than this. But that doesn't mean your relationship is suddenly over. If a man says that he needs personal space, then it is so. Therefore, I suggest you go to meet him, but also be a little more careful so that he does not move away from you.
Understand why he needed more personal space.
Of course, you can directly ask your man about this, perhaps he will tell you why he needs more personal space. And you should also carefully analyze your relationship with him. Be prepared for the fact that you may not like the reasons, but you must accept them and respect them so as not to alienate your partner forever. This is important, first of all, for you, because you do not want to go crazy from your own experiences.
Do not torment him with SMS and calls, but do not stop calling and writing at all
You give him personal space, which means that you will see much less, but you can't stop doing this at all. This applies to calls and SMS. Chat, but reduce the amount of communication. Keep your messages short and to the point. If you call, then also on business, and be sure to ask how he is doing, not forgetting to say that you miss. Even if your man needs more personal space, he will still be pleased to hear all this from you.
Don't stop planning your dates.
You will simply see each other less, but you do not part at all. That is, you should still be dating, which means don't stop planning dates with him.
Analyze the quality of your meetings
I do not force you to delve into everything that happens and find flaws in yourself. Do not think that your relationship has become uninteresting and boring for your partner. It's just time to analyze your relationship, find out what a man likes, and try something new. Yes, you will see each other less, but the quality of your meetings should be higher.
Trust him
This is the most important thing in a relationship. If you don't trust a man, you will alienate him. It is especially important to show your trust in him precisely in those moments when you spend more and more time apart. There is no need to check where he is, with whom and what he is doing.
You must learn to use your personal space.
Don't forget about yourself. If you spend more time apart with your partner, you will have more free time for yourself, your hobbies, meeting friends, for personal development. Use the free time that you have with benefit, do not press on the man and do not become intrusive.
Tell me what you want
When you have time to talk to a man, be sure to tell him what you expect from the relationship and how you see it.
Set a deadline
Yes, you have to give your man personal space, but also let him know right away that this cannot go on indefinitely. Set a timeline for when your relationship will be the same as before, and announce it to your partner. And you know, if he disagrees with you, then maybe you shouldn't wait for him?
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