If you do not want to ruin the relationship, then it is best to avoid them.
"And I said ..."
Even if a man made a mistake in something, it makes no sense to "trump" his righteousness, which now will not correct the situation. He himself remembers what you told him. Better support - he will appreciate it much more.
"But her husband ..."
Comparison with other men will not motivate you. This is analogous with the "son of a mother's friend" - no one wants to chase this unattainable ideal. The reaction will, rather, be the opposite: the man, in principle, will not do what the other is doing."Because"
Even if you are very annoyed or angry, take half a minute to explain to the man the reasons for this or that act, otherwise, an unresolved conflict will hang in your relationship, which will leave an unpleasant mark for a long time. Men love intelligibility - and the emotional "because" in response to the "why" is not clear to them.
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