How to beat the routine in a relationship: advice from Oleg Kenzov

There are many reasons why relationships fall apart. For example, treason and scandals. But there are also "silent killers" of love. One of them is routine.

She sneaks up unnoticed.

The couple notices that they are bored together. To "revive" the relationship, you can test them with extreme tests, as did the New Channel in the reality "Kohannya na vijivannya". And you can do without publicity and follow the advice of the leading project and a psychologist by education Oleg Kenzov.

Why is routine so dangerous?

Monotony in a pair is convenient. You know that from Monday to Wednesday you watch TV shows in the evening, on Saturday you meet with friends, and on Sunday you go to your relatives. But routine is slowly destroying relationships. In love, as in music. When another hit comes out and you listen to it to the core, what happens?

He annoys you and can even annoy you. If you don't constantly play the song, you can enjoy its melody for a long time.

Routine relationships lead to one endless groundhog day. Feelings and passion slowly fade away. One "fine" day, the partners realize that they are not interested in being together and decide to separate.

How to spot a threat to a relationship in time?

Ask yourself what the past six months have been like for you. If every day, every week went the same way, routine has already overtaken you. What to do?

Add spontaneity to your life. Of course, there is no need to "fall out" of the comfort zone as much as possible. Stress won't revive feelings.

Remember what your relationship was like at the beginning? Most likely there was a lot of spontaneity present. What prevents you from behaving the same way?

Try new things together, discover interesting places and hobbies. Look for fun activities just for the two of you that can bring the spark back into your relationship.

Fill each one for himself.

Partners should not only engage in interesting joint affairs, but also not forget about their own passions and hobbies. So you can diversify your days and become interesting to your soulmate again.

And you can also add extreme to love. How did the couples do it in the reality show "Kokhannya na vizhivannya", which premiered this fall on the Novy Channel.

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