Relationships are never easy. Everywhere has its own nuances.
Your relationship is built on ultimatums.
When a man forces you to choose between him and his girlfriends, for example, this by default speaks of his toxicity and dictatorial habits. You have to give each other room to breathe. While blackmail only further leads your relationship to the abyss. If your partner is suppressing your desires, run away from him as quickly as possible.
In a relationship, they want to change you.
If you have been chosen by a person for a relationship, then certainly not in order, like a doll, to change your appearance, habits and character. First of all, they choose you for the qualities that you possess. If they are trying to change you in every possible way, you should think about whether you are really so dear to your partner in this relationship. Any calls about a change in image or character are a sign that your partner does not respect you as a person.You are constantly in a state of resentment.
Perhaps you enjoy a passionate reconciliation with each other. But in fact, this is a road to nowhere. Don't believe me? Believe me: passion does not live long in those relationships that often hide all their problems behind it. You have only two options: either to talk frankly about everything that does not suit you, or to disperse. Fights are toxic in and of themselves. And if they have become systematic, then there can be no talk of a healthy connection.
You are constantly being compared
This is the point about redoing a carbon copy. Comparing to someone else is fraught with the risk of losing your identity. Or at least self-esteem. An unhealthy desire to compare you to someone else threatens many psychological problems for you. Think carefully: are you willing to sacrifice your health for such a toxic relationship?
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