Unfortunately, it so happens that some families die under the burden of domestic relations and daily routine. Divorce is even more difficult for those couples who already have children.
Don't hide the problem
Talk to your child honestly and frankly. Do not do this alone. Both parents should be present during the conversation so that the child sees your calm decision and understands that nothing bad has happened. You will continue to be his parents in the future. It's just not under the same roof anymore.
Don't talk about details
Your personal relationship should not affect your child in any way. Children need specific indicators of a problem that they understand. For example, that you quarrel a lot and therefore it will be better to keep the world apart.Do not swear during a conversation
Better fight a hundred times before this important dialogue. And then, with the child, keep calm and unity. Yes, it's hard for you, but this burden of responsibility should not fall on the shoulders of your common child. Otherwise, if you insult the child's father, you can achieve the opposite effect - your baby will begin to treat you badly because of skepticism.
Don't do it spontaneously
Or even more so on emotions. You must be calm and discreet. Refrain from involving third parties in the conversation. Ask the close circle to be tactful in this situation and not to discuss the issue of divorce with the child.
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