Intuition plays an important role in the upbringing of children, but many parents - contrary to their attitudes - begin to act as is customary in society.
The child needs to be praised as often as possible.
Neuroscientists had to debunk the myth. They found that excessive praise from infancy leads to learning problems. Parents inspire the child with the idea of exclusivity; in adulthood, the student stops trying.He is already considered gifted, why do something?
This does not mean that children not worth praising. But this must be done not just like that, but for certain merits, diligence, attempts, efforts, achievements, victories.
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The child never lies
Absolutely all children deceive their parents, scientists have proven that four-year-olds lie about once every two hours, and six-year-olds do it every hour. But, of course, children are not completely consciously deceiving - most often they want to hide their fault or some kind of prank from their mother so that they are not punished.
Lying seems to them the lesser evil, they do not yet understand that lying will also anger their parents.
Children need to be protected from parental quarrels
A family cannot do without minor conflicts, and children, parents believe, experience them very painfully. But here, too, it is necessary to take into account the children's perception - special and unique.Scientists who measured the level of the stress hormone in children who watched adult quarrels found that younger family members responded normally to conflicts that ended in reconciliation. The very same level of intensity of passions during the quarrel of the elders did not affect their psychological state in any way.
3 myths that prevent us from raising children correctly / istockphoto.com
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