Overwhelmed with newfangled toys, a child who goes to 7 circles can be unhappy. How do you fix this?
Talk about your love
The most important condition for a child's happiness is confidence in the parents' love. Children do not understand the hints and signs of attention that are accepted in adults. They need to talk about it, and in plain text!
Hug and kiss your children
Psychologists say to do this at least 4 times a day. Don't worry, it's impossible to fondle a child! But the lack of affection and attention makes the child unhappy and this can lead to developmental delays.
Make eye contact
By the look, children understand how they are treated. Try to contact your eyes when communicating with your child. Express in your eyes the whole gamut of feelings that you have for your baby.
istockphoto.com
Spend time with your child
Yes, it can be difficult, but necessary. Play with your childwhile preparing dinner, take time before bed, read a fairy tale, answer endless questions.
Chat with your child
Always be interested in the child's life, find out how his day went, what he did, what was interesting to him and what was not. Tell him your joys, be frank with him, and the reaction will not take long.
Love unconditionally
Love your child not because he is handsome and smart, or does a good job at school, but simply because he is.
Remember the happy moments of your childhood
This will not only improve your mood, but it will also help you understand your child.
It will be interesting for you to read:
- 10 important things you must do for your happiness;
- 5 secrets of Danish happiness;
- what do you lack for happiness?