If you want not to harm your own child and form a full-fledged personality out of him, then do not do the following.
Do not break safety regulations
This is the first thing parents need to know. If you cross the road in the wrong place or allow yourself destructive behavior, then the child will do the same.
Lie
Do you want your children to you spoke only the truth? Then you should not deceive your children either. For a child, parents are gods. As you do, it will be right for them.
Quarrel, swear, shout
Conflict children are children from conflict families. The child repeats everything he sees and hears. Do not be surprised if he is at school fight.
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Obscene language
If parents constantly use bad words, then the child will say that. And very often this happens at the most inopportune moment. After all, the baby does not understand what this word is and why it is inappropriate to say it out loud.
Criticizing the adults that matter to the child
If you scold the teacher with a child, call her names and express your opinion in a dismissive manner, then the child will treat this adult in the same way. And of course, after this the child will not obey and respect the teacher.
Raising a child begins with raising yourself - remember this!
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