When discord occurs in the family, another man or another woman may appear in the relationship. Not the fact that this is something serious. But a person is a pair creature and he needs the support of the opposite sex, and if he stops receiving what he needs in the family, he goes to the side to get what he wants.
The fact is that by "desirable" in most cases is meant not at all why people still start relationships on the side. And the reasons for women and men differ dramatically.
Female reasons
1. Lack of confidence in your man
When a man sits without work for a long time, he complains, but does nothing to change the situation. A woman cannot constantly support and goes to look for "masculine strength" on the side.
2. Fear of being alone
Sometimes men sin by saying to their women: “but who needs you,” “but no one besides me will covet you,” and stuff like that. Some women withdraw into themselves, and someone is looking for support and confirmation of their attractiveness on the side.
3. Loss of respect for a man
A man in a woman's eyes is a hero, a breadwinner and a strong shoulder. A woman always expects from a man that he will save her and help her. But it happens that a man for some reason cannot or does not want to help and the woman loses respect and goes to the one from whom she will receive the energy of the earner.
Male reasons
1. Feeling unnecessary
It is vitally important for every man to feel needed and useful. As soon as he realizes that no one needs his power, he leaves in search of someone he can help.
2. Lack of gratitude
We have been living with each other for many years and completely forget about the simple rule that we need to be grateful to each other, and to the man in particular. For a woman, this is not as important as for a strong gender. Without gratitude, a man does not feel like a hero and goes to be a hero where he will be thanked.
3. Contempt
And disrespect not for a man, but a woman for herself. A woman who does not respect herself, gives the man all of herself and does not think about her needs, extinguishes the man has the instinct of a getter and a hunter and he goes to the one who knows what he wants and is not afraid about it ask.
As it turned out, the reasons are not as commonplace as they seem, and you should not underestimate your partners.
We are not animals, after all, and the reasons may be deeper!
Talk, make compromises, don't lose your head and faith in your loved ones!
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