Experts conducted an experiment, asking people over 60 years old just one question: "What advice could you give to young modern people?"
This is what people answered most often.
- Good work is not fun. This is the kind of work that you are able to endure during the entire work week, and which can cover all your expenses. There is practically not a single person who would adore his work every second!
- Life is very fleeting. Take your time to get married / get married when you are younger. Live for fun, travel, do not spend a lot of money on things until you have children.
- You don't need to take everything too personally. Even when the circumstances, the situation seem hopeless, try to look at everything from the outside with humor.
- A true friend is one who will rush to you in the middle of the night, who will not refuse help at an inconvenient moment for him. Everyone else is just someone you know.
- The most important person in your life is the one who decided to share his life with you, and that's the only way.
- Spend more time with your children because they will grow up very quickly.
- Do not be lazy, work, but just don’t put your work above your friends, family and close your eyes to your own needs.
- Nobody knows how long he will live - many years or not. But health should always be taken care of.
- When you suddenly start feeling like your life has become tiresome, stop and think. Try to see positive things in your current existence, even if they are small things. Understand, everything is relative!
- Always eat and exercise as if you have diabetes and heart disease. And these diseases will never affect you!
- There is only one life, so try to fulfill your dreams, because one day you will wake up with the knowledge that you are already 60.
- Dental problems are a huge horror, so visit your dentist and take care of your oral health.
- You don't have to strictly follow all the Bible's commandments. Ask for advice from someone you respect, and then weigh the pros and cons, and make a decision.
- Hold on to events and times rather than material things.
- Any disease and any damage must be treated without fail. All your injuries and illnesses will manifest themselves in old age!
- In life, you need to appreciate every moment, every moment - this is what real pleasure is. In youth, we want everything at once, but this does not happen. You need to enjoy the little things. Talk to the person, instead of writing him a message, visit your parents for no reason while they are still alive.
- Try not to be in debt, pay your bills on time.
- Jealousy is a very bad feeling. Trust your partner, trust is the ultimate relationship.
- Don't forget your dreams. You should get even a little closer to them. Years will go by, and it will be very difficult for you to achieve them.
- Don't live by stereotypes. The first time you see a person, you know absolutely nothing about him. All you see is his clothes, gender, approximate age, nationality. But you do not know about the life of this person, about the character, about the actions. Never categorize people.
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