Sometimes we do not notice that the people around us are completely different from who they claim to be. Or maybe they do not pretend, it is we ourselves who do not see reality. One thing I know for sure is to be more attentive to others, because they can greatly spoil our life.
Here are the signs that tell you that a person is poisoning your life.
He never admits he was wrong.
When a person, even if it has long been clear to everyone that he is wrong, still does not admit anything, and in general not what circumstances does not want to take responsibility for the actions committed, you know, he is negative personality. And you cannot change it, no matter how much you want it. He is confident that he knows everything and about everything better than others. He has only two opinions on this or that situation, one is his, the second is wrong.
He is selfish
He loves to brag about his exploits and achievements, always speaks of himself in a praiseworthy tone, but never rejoices if someone has achieved success.
He constantly interrupts people.
When he talks about himself, everyone should be silent and listen to him, but as soon as his interlocutor begins to talk about his successes or a problem, he begins to interrupt, and he does it abruptly and rudely.
He is disrespectful to people and their opinions.
He does not even hide his disrespect for people, and he frankly does not care who is there and what counts. He puts himself above everyone else, he allows himself to be admired, does not allow himself to be criticized and belittled. Showing his disrespect for people, he seems to become stronger and more confident in himself.
He loves to be the center of attention
With any speeches and actions, he tries to draw attention to his person, even if he has to humiliate you for this. He will masterfully divert attention from anyone, making sure that the gaze of the environment will be riveted only to him.
For him, people and you including - complete zero
He pays no attention to you, your experiences, your failures, or, on the contrary, your successes. He doesn't care, he can occasionally smile at you or say something like "well done", but this is only if he needs something from you. If there is absolutely nothing to take from you, you will be an empty place for him. And this also applies to other people, so the problem is not with you, and that you are not like that. The only problem is him! He will not even hide that he is not interested in your story at all, he constantly ignores you, interrupts, turns the conversation over to himself.
He masterfully portrays himself as a victim
In the event that his exposure happened, he can masterfully turn everything over so that it looks like a victim, but you will be to blame for everything. He is a real manipulator, he will accuse you of lying, treating him badly, etc. Do not believe all this!
Remember the most important thing, you will not be able to change such a toxic negative person. He can pretend to be anyone, but he never gets better. He will mock you as long as you allow him to. Stick your conscience and kind heart somewhere far away, and fight back the person who poisons your life today!
Redefine your environment in the most thorough way. With many negativists, it is high time to go their separate ways. They just destroy you! Let kind and positive people into your life, you definitely deserve it! Start changing your life for the better right now!
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