Now we live in a modern, free society, and it has completely different rules, communication and a different view of building relationships. Everyone says that between a man and a woman there should be complete trust, openness, sincerity and equality. But, despite this, many people live differently! They believe that many things should be kept secret from a partner, because they will not help to build a harmonious relationship, but, on the contrary, will only spoil them greatly.
Many women try to appear intelligent and graceful, so they try to follow unspoken etiquette. So they look special, mysterious and interesting in the eyes of men. Behavior like this can ignite a spark at the very beginning of a relationship, but it can, over time, greatly harm the building of strong, healthy relationships. That is why they believe that women are better off keeping quiet about certain things with their men!
That's what it is about!
Former partners
According to experienced ladies, you shouldn't tell a man about all your former partners. Firstly, all men are different, starting to communicate with a woman, they want to believe that they are, if not the first, but at least the second or third partner in the life of their beloved. Secondly, well, it's still your personal one, perhaps you want to forget about some gentlemen who accidentally "wandered" into your bed. Yes, there is no need to tell a man about the details of his personal life, if he does not ask about it. Well, if the gentleman is curious, then it is better for him, of course, to tell everything at once, so that after years the number of your men, your experience and interesting relationships did not come as a surprise to him, and, possibly, blow.
Women's health problems
No matter how they swear in the registry office "in illness and health", men really do not like it when their halves are constantly whining about their health. This is so, but you should not consider men fragile creatures who cannot bear your story about a trip to a gynecologist. Many women become so secretive that they are even silent when problems with their intimate health concern their men. It is worth thinking with your head, and separating those sores that you should keep silent about and those that you definitely need to report.
Stormy youth
There are ladies who, despite their stormy youth, try to look like inexperienced innocent girls next to their partner. They are sure that a man should consider that his beloved is an inanimate person who did not have any fun at all in his youth. A kind of holy maiden, not subject to the weaknesses of human existence. It is interesting that at one moment everything can come to the surface, and then the lady will not find any excuses for herself, and the partner will convict her of lying. What are these secret games for?
Fantasies in bed
In general, many women are sure that it is better to be silent about everything related to intimate fantasies and preferences with men. And now there are a lot of such poor ladies with a similar worldview. And where, excuse me, to do with your desire and fantasies? Isn't it easier to open up to your partner and become a happy woman? Or do you enjoy pretending to be happy in the missionary position instead of pursuing your bright sexual ideas?
Your salary
There are women who prefer to hide the true salary from their faithful, so, according to them, they can spend more, and they do not have to report to a man for every penny. But this also means zero trust! How can you build a common life if you have to keep silent about your earnings? I understand, to remain silent about a certain amount that will be used to purchase a gift for a loved one, but otherwise, it's just awful!
Intimate failures
It's so embarrassing to admit to experiments, funny situations and awkward excesses that occurred with a woman in bed before her partner, and, possibly, with him in bed (if he somehow did not noticed)! Were you embarrassed and ashamed? Yes, of course, keep everything to yourself, because nothing can shake your image of the Snow Queen!
The most important thing in a relationship with a man is trust and sincerity! Learn to build healthy relationships, and be open with your partners, then you will become truly happy women!
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