There is such a thing as "energy vampire". This is neither a fairy-tale character nor a hero of horror films, these are real people who are capable of harming others by their appearance alone. Energy vampires may even be among your loved ones. They suck out all their vital energy from those around them, leaving those in an exhausted state.
Sometimes an energy vampire is difficult to recognize. But, if after communicating with a person you feel devastated, overwhelmed, everything falls out of your hands and you don't want to do anything, then this is it! That is, energy vampires do not cause physical pain, they are emotionally draining!
Here are the signs that an energy vampire is near you
He talks exclusively about himself and his problems.
If during a conversation with a person you cannot even insert a word about yourself, and for him you are always exclusively a listener, then you should think about communicating with him. In addition, the constant listening to other people's problems is really dangerous for a person. You will quickly become devastated and exhausted.
He says that you are not at all what he would like to see you.
This leads to the fact that you, in the company with an energy vampire, feel that you are guilty in front of him for something, you feel guilty.
He manipulates you
Yes, the energy vampire is a real manipulator. He can humiliate, use you for his own purposes, everything only in order to get what he wants from you. Therefore, you should promise yourself that you will not allow anyone to wipe your feet.
If the person is your soul mate, then you do not enjoy intimacy with him.
If you go to bed with a person and do not feel attraction to him, desire, and intimacy is for you as a favor, then this is not normal.
You cannot break off a relationship with a person, although you have long wanted it
Energy vampires know how to ensure that their victim is always with them. Is this some kind of magical attraction? No, this is the art of manipulation! This is an unhealthy relationship when you feel very bad about it, but you are afraid to leave.
He always involves you in his dramas, even without your desire.
This is what very much depletes and deprives a person of his energy. You don't have to participate in all of this!
He cannot live the way he wants, without people, he depends on them
Therefore, the energy vampire needs you very much so that he is constantly fed by your energy. He needs to mislead you, insult, humiliate, use you. So he feels very good, but your life turns into hell every day!
He seems beautiful, even perfect
Never create idols for yourself! Very often famous, beautiful in every way and seemingly ideal people end up being toxic manipulators and energy vampires. They use their superiority to guide people where they want to go. It is very dangerous.
He talks about how he can't live without you
Moreover, this phrase "flies" at the moment when there is a quarrel between you, and you want to break off all communication. Don't trust this person. If he always scoffs at you and always uses you, and at critical moments he falls on his knees and asks you not to leave, you should not be carried on with it.
You feel tired next to him
Of course, you shouldn't cut from the shoulder. First, you can be examined by a doctor, and find out the possible cause of your decadent condition. But, in the event that everything is in order with you, it is worth considering. Most likely, you have an energy vampire next to you, who is sucking all your energy!
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