In our country, for some reason, the less income people have, the more children they have. Personally, I was always surprised at this. No, I'm not chasing anyone to terminate a pregnancy, but, when "doing this", did you try to use contraception? And if you don't even have money for pills and condoms, what kind of children are you? Maybe I was rude, but I think you get the point! Children need a lot of money, a lot! They all eat, get sick, they need to be dressed. Why is there any shift in this regard in our country? Family, only dad works, at a factory where they pay pennies, mom jumps from decree to decree, which there is already work here, and five children, among whom there are boys wearing clothes from their elders sisters.
Of course, we are discussing this, so to speak, behind the backs of many children, because I think you are unlikely to go and ask the mother of five children: "Where are you giving birth to them?" Children, of course, are absolutely innocent of anything, but you need to use common sense to approach the conception, birth and education of the younger generation.
But no, many people live for today. “God gave a child, he will give to a child” - who invented this statement? In reality, it happens that children grow up in a poor family, because no one will give their parents anything until they themselves earn. Here we got to the question of who and how much someone will give. The state helps the needy, it just takes a long time to get this status. But you will not live on child benefits all your life? And then, when the children grow up, they will have to give birth again, because the income will be lost!
Parents who live today, it is generally not clear what they think. They have a child in every corner of the room, and the wind in their wallet. No, children are great, but in small numbers and only if you can provide them with enough food, clothing and can educate them.
Have you heard this expression: "Children are the wealth of the poor"? Here it is worth understanding this as the fact that not everyone can afford a child. You can't buy it because it's not a thing!
If you ask a mother with many children living in a one-room apartment with her family, what motivated her to create such a large family, she will answer that she just loves children. That is, the birth of children is strictly according to her wishes. That is, mom wants and gives birth, but what do children want? Did anyone ask them at all? Every child needs to be educated if you want happiness in life for him. Nowhere without education! And now the parents who give birth to children one after another do not even think about what will happen to their family in 5, 10, 15 years.
Low-income families often show on the news how they live in poverty and need help. Such families turn for help to ordinary people, to philanthropists, to the authorities. Such people expect that at least someone will help them. But I don't understand this! Some have to work day and night to earn their living, while others simply give birth, cry on the air, and everything is given to them for free. Free for them, but at the expense of your taxes!
At one time, I was stuck on moms' sites, where the main topics for discussion are the color of baby poop, how to treat red throat, as well as what to cook for dinner, etc. And there I came across one post, by the way, there is a sea of them there for such topic. So, the girl uploads a photo of pregnancy tests, and writes: "Girls, you see the second strip?" A third of the women on the site say they see the second, a third claim that it is a reagent, and the rest twist their fingers to their temples and assure that the test is crystal clear. So that girl was recommended to go to the clinic and get tested for hCG. This is the most reliable way to find out if a woman is pregnant or not. So the girl said that she cannot afford it, it is expensive. I looked at the status, and that lady already has three children and is planning a fourth.
Explain to me, please! You have nothing to eat, you do not know where to get money for one child for an excursion, the second for a jacket, the third for medicine, and you are going for the fourth? Have a head, no? Do you know how much the analysis for hCG costs? 500 rubles!
You will not get a clear answer from parents with many children if you ask: why do they not take their children to sections and Developers, why can't they provide their children with normal food, why don't they buy quality food for their children clothes. They will simply tell you something like: "Children are happiness, and you, parents with one or two children, will never understand this." That is, giving birth to children, they simply make themselves happy, but they cannot give this very happiness and full development to children.
I look forward to your comments on this matter!
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