The age-old problem of fathers and children haunts, probably, all parents. How to raise a child correctly, so that later in old age you will not shed tears from resentment, inattention and shame for your child? Experts point out many nuances of upbringing, and I want to talk about the most important ones.
What should you teach your child?
Respect elders
Many parents pamper their children at first, and then they themselves do not understand why their offspring literally wipes their feet on them. Yes, you need to show love for the child, be his friend, but also become an authority, in fact, a respected person.
Prepare
Cooking can help express love and develop communication skills, experts say. It is also important that the child understands what the dishes are prepared from, and will distinguish between healthy and unhealthy foods. Start cooking with your baby, and then just prompt and explain that it is food cooked with your own hands that is much healthier. This will help your child think twice before buying a hamburger or hot dog at a street stall.
Show affection
Everything is simple here! Hug your child more often, be attentive, kind, affectionate to him, say that you love him. Otherwise, as early as adolescence, you may face protests, "showing of character", and even aggression. Build a trusting relationship with your child, and this will help him build similar relationships with others in the future.
Make money for your pleasures
Pocket money or purchases for pleasure should be given to a child only in return for good behavior, help, etc. Teach your kid to save up for a "dream". If your daughter or son wants some expensive toy, invite them to put bills or coins in a piggy bank. Even if in the end it doesn't accumulate as much as you need, you can always add for a purchase. The principle itself is important here. Teach your child financial literacy. Explain that a person cannot buy everything he wants, and that sometimes you need to deny yourself something in order to get what you dream about.
Be happy alone
Many adults are very afraid of loneliness, so from an early age it is worth teaching your baby to play alone, to perform some tasks alone as well. He must understand that there is nothing wrong with that, independent entertainment will allow your child to grow up independent.
Feel free to be natural
It is important from an early age to tell the child pleasant words about his success and appearance, so that he grows up with adequate self-esteem and is not afraid to be real. Teach him not to hide his emotions, not to be afraid of his own self.
Adapt quickly to change
Again, many adults are so afraid of change, they are afraid of any changes that have arisen in their life path. But uncertainty is an integral part of any person's life. And you must teach your child to be ready and not afraid of change.
Endure to get even more
The child must be able to control himself. Here, even take as an example the kid's desire to buy a toy and the accumulation of money. His patience will help him achieve more. Or, for example, sports. After all, not a single athlete became a champion immediately. I had to endure a lot, train for a long time in order to reach heights.
Take care of the weak
Children, old people, animals - they are weak! And you need to teach your child to give care and attention to those who are weaker. So your baby will grow up to be a really good person, learn to be friends, help those who need it in difficult situations, as well as show responsibility for those who are weaker than him.
Monitor body hygiene
You can always bathe your baby, but growing up children are sometimes too lazy to wash, brush their teeth, etc. It is necessary to instill a craving for hygiene from childhood. It is imperative that this healthy habit is always with your child.
Tell us in the comments what else, in your opinion, you need to teach your child.
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