Each parent is puzzled by the question: how to raise from a child not just a real person, but a strong, self-confident and able to exist in our society. A lot of literature has been written on this topic, but still it remains important for dads and moms. Today I decided to devote my article to this very thing. Psychologists have highlighted some tips that will help your child learn to stand up for themselves, not give offense and turn into a full-fledged self-confident person.
Tips for children from their parents
Nobody has the right to break your rules. Don't let it happen. No one can threaten you, force you to do something against your will, hurt you or tease you. If you find yourself in a very uncomfortable situation for yourself, then you need to gather all your will into a fist, and defend yourself by word or action. But it's important to remember that you, too, should not break other people's rules.
Always be confident in your actions and thoughts. (Here, parents should try to maintain the child's positive self-esteem. We need to praise more for expressing personal opinions, for making decisions on their own, for good deeds. At the same time, you need to teach the kid to adequately respond to his mistakes and mistakes. If you begin to appreciate in your child his success, and not just "poke his nose" into something bad he did, he will grow up confident).
Always try to believe in the best, no matter how the situation develops. (You need to teach your child not to dwell on the bad, let him try to see the good, to set himself up positively. It is much easier for an optimist in life, it is easier to perceive the world around him, so more positive people are attracted).
You have the right to your own opinion. (Do not be afraid to connect your child to communication with different people, let him find a way out of this or that situation on his own. Let him learn to express his own opinion, learn to start, as well as maintain a conversation with people. This experience will also help him gain confidence in himself and his thoughts.)
A fight is not always the best way out of a situation. Sometimes such a solution to the conflict only exacerbates the situation. But words help much better than actions! (You yourself must show your child by your own example that any situation can be resolved with the help of conversation, well-chosen words, compromise).
Do not support children who tease or insult someone, even if you think that this way you will gain authority in their eyes. (It is necessary to teach the child to be respectful of others, regardless of their age and social status. Each person has his own name, this is his value. Any teasers should be ignored.)
Don't be afraid to say no to people. (It is clear that many parents do not shine with this either. But isn't it time for you to learn how to refuse people when a situation or request is uncomfortable for you? Teach this to your child. He always has a choice, and he will be respected for him, and this is the main thing).
Don't be afraid to ask for help. (The child should know that his parents are a reliable fortress, rear, and they can always help him with advice or deed. If your child is not doing well on his own, he should not be afraid to ask others for help, especially his dad or mom.)
There should be sport in your life. It will increase your self-confidence, especially if you are successful. Sports will help you develop endurance and patience.
I did not discover America, you must agree, the advice is simple, but why then in our society there are so many insecure people who are afraid to stand up for themselves? Why is there so much rudeness and rudeness? Everything comes from parents! Start raising your child differently today, using my advice, and you will help your dear little man become better and live easier!
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