Now many people are trying to leave Russia, having moved to another country for permanent residence. This is a very serious step, it is not just a move to another city, it is a real challenge to fate. Euphoria, life from scratch, new impressions and perspectives. But for some reason, all emigrants are silent about the side effects of their move. But there are also negative aspects, and most often at the very beginning of emigration there are much more of them than positive ones.
I will tell you about the most common negative consequences of emigration, which some still talk about
The feelings of loved ones
People often emigrate not with their families, therefore, relatives and friends who have remained in their homeland feel devastated. They have the feeling that a person has gone to another planet altogether, he is unattainable. Even if parents have always supported their children, they are unlikely to be happy that they will leave them thousands of kilometers away. Emigration is a selfish step, and it brings a lot of heartache, stress and anxiety to a person's loved ones.
Guilt
Very often you can hear from emigrants that as soon as they moved to another country, problems began in their families. Some kind of law of meanness works here. My grandmother fell ill, and calls every day asking when the grandson will arrive. My parents got sick, and they ask me to come and call more often. A person begins to feel guilty, because he decided to move to another country, and cannot wander back and forth. And then family events begin - weddings, anniversaries, which the emigrant also misses. My heart is melancholy, sadness, a sense of guilt, because the emigrant left everyone and followed his dream.
Loneliness
At home, even living alone, a person can always go out into a familiar courtyard, talk to neighbors, call friends and meet, go to their parents for the weekend. It's different abroad. Do not think that you can immediately find yourself friends over the hill. Most often, foreigners are reluctant to make contact with a "stranger", and they will not let the first comer into their lives. It will take a long time to gain their trust. Until that happens. There will be a feeling of loneliness, and all the holidays will be held alone with yourself.
Feeling like you're a stranger
An emigrant will never feel like a local in another country. Even if many years pass, and no matter how perfect everything turns out, there will always be a feeling that you are not at home. Another country - different traditions, customs, culture, people. And a person grew up in a completely different atmosphere, and it's hard to get used to it. Of course, in appearance it will be difficult to distinguish who is an emigrant and who is local, but the feeling of a foreign land will be present inside a person, this will not give him peace. You will miss your native country, history, familiar places, your loved ones. There will be no feeling of comfort and coziness, there will be no feeling of home ...
Loss of friends
One of the strongest bonds in everyone's life is friendship. By emigrating, you will lose most of your friends, you will not be able to communicate and see each other as before. At first, you will often call up and share your impressions, but then the calls will be less and less frequent, and, most likely, they will stop altogether. New people will appear in your life, and the connection with old friends will be lost.
I do not discourage people from moving to another country, because you must always follow your dream, strive for more and better. You just need to be prepared for a number of difficulties that not everyone is able to overcome. Analyze, think, study all the nuances, and then just move.
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