Probably, each such a situation occurs that suddenly begin to realize that blurted out something extra. And sometimes it happens that we have to say what we did not want to talk. But sometimes better just to keep quiet so as not to provoke a conflict.
Here are 7 cases, when it is better to be silent than to speak!
When someone gossips
People mostly like to gossip. But do not participate in it. No need to discuss the people, especially when it comes to your loved ones or friends. You feel stupid when they say something about a person, and you are silent, and you just bursting to add anything? Stop! Nothing good will come of it! If you ask an opinion on someone's behavior or appearance, the answer something neutral, such as, "this is his life, and only up to him" or "he is doing everything possible." At this better finish foolish talk, and change the subject.
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When trying to learn something about your personal life
You need to put boundaries that people can not move. Many so interesting poking around in someone else's clothes, and they shamelessly ask questions that are taken by surprise. Do not even think about anyone or anything to spread itself, it is only your personal life! If such questions are asked you are very close friends, try to keep the answers in the mystery. Well, I think you will be pleased, if, for example, your partner will start to talk about your personal to him, and even intimate life? In addition, your excessive openness in this regard can be said of you that you are a man who can not be trusted!
When someone made a mistake
It is better to refrain from comments that could go into the accusations and even insults. Keep your thoughts to yourself. Imagine yourself in the place of the man, we all make mistakes, think in what he is now able to. It is not necessary to show their superiority and nuzzle stumbled in his error.
When you are well versed in the issue
You may have largely succeeded in life, but do not shout to all and sundry about their superiority, it is wrong. You can carry on a conversation on the subject, which are very familiar, but do not start to be smart! Focus only on communicating with those close to you, but to talk about their professionalism can be at work!
When you know a secret that can give you an advantage
Suppose there is a situation that you can improve your personal life or financial situation, etc. That's just it could hurt someone, in this case, better to keep silent! It is difficult sometimes to do, however, sboltni you too much, you can lose people's trust forever. Believe me, a lot more good will your silence.
When you do not know what to talk about
It is not necessary to insert their word, if you do not understand the topic, otherwise you seem stupid.
During an argument
When there is strife, especially between close friends, in a fit of emotion, they can a lot of slander each other is not very pleasant. Therefore, it is silent and listen, do not go too far. Do not let your emotions take over you the upper hand, pereterpit, give yourself a cool down, and then decide on the cold head and say! And even if you will even be 10 times right in his words, do not forget that they can hurt a loved one, spoil your relationship with your colleagues or supervisor, etc.
You know, there is a saying - "Keep silent, you will look more intelligent!" If all the previous items you have not sent in the "true path", then you should at least this simple, but very wise sayings!
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