According to the sages, there are things that should not be told to others. Something is best kept secret!
You cannot tell strangers about everything in a row, what concerns you personally, you need to keep to yourself. Personal life, plans, goals, family quarrels. Do not be an open book for everyone, strangers do not need to know absolutely everything about you!
Keep quiet about it with others
Your personal plans
Definitely, each person has their own plans. But you don't need to share them with others. No, here we are not talking about something insignificant, here it is more about the global. Keep your ideas to yourself until they finally come true. There may be many weaknesses in the plans, if someone points them out to you, then you can refuse to implement your plan. In addition, there are a lot of envious and spiteful critics around who can harm with their negative thoughts and attitudes.
Your kind deeds
If you did someone well, helped with deeds, money, advice - it doesn't matter, you shouldn't talk about it to everyone around. This must also remain secret. It is clear that if you tell, for example, about your charity, then you will be overwhelmed with pride. However, the purpose of good deeds is different. Do not flaunt them, it is better, on the contrary, to protect them from evil eyes!
Your limitations
If you, for example, do not eat meat or do not drink alcohol, this is your right. But you don't need to tell everyone about it. You limit yourself in order to heal the body, to cleanse spiritually, emotionally, physically, and not in order to poke everyone into information with your nose. Like: “I don’t eat meat, how can you eat poor animals?”, “I don’t drink at all, alcohol is fast getting old ”, etc. Others do not know about restrictions on food, sexual relations and bad habits need to.
Your heroic deeds
This is the same as with good deeds. Well, it turned out that you transferred your grandmother across the road, took the kitten home and went out, gave a large sum of money to your friends, you are great, but why brag? Absolutely about any heroic deeds, as well as about overcoming some kind of inner trials, you need to keep silent.
Your spiritual knowledge
Only an enlightened person can talk about spiritual things. Listen to the speeches of clergymen, go to church, read religious literature - gain spiritual knowledge. But there is no need to talk about them, to teach everyone around the wisdom. For many people, the realization of the truth can take many years, but a person must come to this on his own, and not act under someone else's influence.
Your family affairs
The sages advise you never to tell strangers about what is happening in your family. Illness, quarrels, luck, wages - everything that concerns your family should remain in it. The less you talk about family matters, the stronger your relationship with your household will be. Happiness loves silence. People may envy your success, and failures will delight many.
Gossip, gossip, nasty things
The point is that you should not tell anyone those nasty things that you heard from someone. It does not matter who and what exactly you were told, do not get dirty about it. Gossip is empty, it is ugly to talk about someone that you have heard from third parties.
Do you have anything to add to this list? I'm waiting for you in the comments!
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