Living with a man who you tyrants and does not live fully, you first make yourself ill.
And if you have children, then everything is much worse. You poison the lives and the well.
In addition to the bad example before his eyes, the children see attitude of men towards you. This will lead to the fact that children will choose the same pattern of behavior, but in a relationship with his chosen one.
For them, the true expression of love will be your relationship with her husband. Since you - the first people to show them what love between a man and a woman. Of course, in the future the children will love to see the different, but all my life they will have in front of your eyes the example of the relationship.
So. You decide for yourself go.
But there are many problems. All they are different. But the longer you live with the person, the harder it is to get away from him. Especially when there is a common child, or several children.
What to do?
· Clearly decide for themselves that you no longer want to live with this person
· If you do not work - looking for a job (any, search, and do not say that it is impossible !!!).
· Enlist the support of loved ones. If they are far away - friends, relatives and acquaintances.
· Do not hesitate to talk about the problem. Discuss with relatives (!!!) people that you have going on. Believe me, the more people know, the more likely that you will help. BUT!!! It should not be like a nagging and confession of the unfortunate woman.
In fact: drinking, beats, life does not. I want to leave, I think where. A person who is telling you, zasyadet in mind this thought, and on occasion he will come back to you, with an offer of assistance.
· Do not expect quick results. And not in a hurry to notify your spouse care. As long as there is no place to go or you do not come to a full understanding of how it will be silent. It is difficult, but if you say nothing good will come of this.
· If you have nowhere to live? Looking for a room (many Grandma / Grandpa rent out their rooms). You can connect them (for a fee), babysitting. If you have money, then there are no issues.
This is the minimum list of what needs to be done at the initial stage.
When you have in mind more or less harmonious picture you will have easier, and you will gain confidence.
And my dear, do not give up, if you have taken such a decision.
Matter what you decide, nothing will change.
He did not cease to behave this way. By myself I know.
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