It has long been considered that women are trying to get married, but men do not need marriage at all. I agree that some women, for example, after 30 years are already beginning to frantically sort out their gentlemen in search of a spouse, but in adulthood, it is much better for ladies to remain alone. And men need marriage!
In adulthood, being unmarried is good for women. Why? Because there is much less stress than married people! These are not mere words, these are facts that have been proven by scientists.
So why is marriage in old age needed more for men than for women?
Everything is very simple!
It is much more profitable for an elderly man to live with his wife. It makes his existence more peaceful. The wife runs the household, “protects” the husband's health. She is busy around the house, shoulders all the chores around the house, and she herself is in constant stress, she has daily loads, continuous frustrations and restrictions. At the same time, she herself already has very shaky health from time to time, because most of her life has been lived.
Everyone knows that women live longer than men. That is why one more burden falls on them - caring for a husband all his life, during illness and troubles at his death. Men, they are the same as children, at least they require the same increased attention to themselves as babies. And this is regardless of their age. This, too, all provokes stress in women.
Research shows that married women have a stress level of 8.5 out of ten! For ladies, marriage and parenting are on the same level in terms of stress. And all the same men, like little children, create more and more troubles and problems.
Here are the facts revealed by a survey of married women. I'm not saying that this is absolutely the case for everyone, but still for the majority.
- A woman believes, in principle, like a man, that all responsibilities for the house and childcare should be solely on her shoulders. Of course, this is only the result of the wrong education of wallpaper floors.
- If a man after giving birth does not help his wife in any way, she begins to live in stress. For some reason, many husbands are very afraid to even just approach small children, not to mention some kind of help, games, feeding, swaddling, etc.
- Due to the large amount of household chores, a woman does not have time for herself, for sufficient self-care. Because all the free time is occupied by the household, caring for the children and the husband. The result is stress again. Sometimes the maelstrom of affairs does not allow the ladies to get out of it all.
- An unpleasant thing about death. Studies have shown that in a couple where the woman dies first, the man's health deteriorates immediately. Whereas if the spouse dies first, the widow's condition improves, on the contrary, because stress and frustration go away with the husband. This is because men, like children, rely on their wives in everything, so they need a marriage in old age!
What can you say here? Probably, it is high time for men to accept the fact that they cannot do without us women. Marriage with women in old age is of particular value to them. While women themselves, living without spouses, regain their health, protect themselves from disorders and stress.
Dear women, I do not dissuade you from marriage, and I do not hint at a divorce, I only urge you to become more attentive to your health and to your appearance. Do not forget about yourself, allocate more free time for yourself, and try to share with your spouses not only rights, but also responsibilities!
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