Do you always manage to finish an unpleasant conversation with a rude person in their favor? Not? Then take on arms phrases that give 100% result in the dialogue with the boor:
1. "Because this is what I decided to / as well!"
The phrase is truly universal and often helps. Plus the effect of surprise. Imagine that ham in the usual manner for it requires you to explanations in the actions. Waiting for you to start to blame, explained. And you tell him: "I decided to / and, therefore, did / a!"
This is justified by the weak and seeking an explanation. A strong just to announce its decision. It can not enter into a stupor insolent. And you do not even insulted him - nothing to complain about. But it shows that you have a rod, and you better not mess with. Psychologists believe that after such a worthy answer unpleasant conversation will be completed in your favor.
2. "In terms of???"
This phrase compels rough companion to try the feeling of guilt on themselves. After this you want to or not, you will have to indulge in an excuse. let us say:
- At the car park, "In a sense, it is" your "place" ?!
- In an expensive restaurant, "I mean, you do not have aspic with horseradish" ?!
- In a long line, "I mean, you were here a long time" ?!
See how all in one sentence, you are able to pay off a rough statement of a person, and literally force him to explain the existing claim?
3. "The answer does not wait. It will not! "
Imagine that snapper got you into an argument. You do not want to, but the man resolutely and rude trying to disprove your opinion and the rightness of his own. Very emotional, in a raised voice, and contrary to logic.
At some point he fell silent with confidence, you grabbed the degree of tension and now the controversy will continue. And you do not hurry, "make" 5 seconds of silence, and then say "sacred" - "Answer not wait. It will not be. "
Think about it - people put in their "truth" a lot of energy and emotion! What got in return? Indifference. It will feel cheated in better than expected. Believe me, of all the things that can be done with an opponent, it is a boor - the most humiliating and safe at the same time. Because the expected rude answer is very easy, but a sudden indifference - is virtually impossible.
The above phrases work flawlessly, but pay attention to their implementation. Demonstrate Barker absolute self-confidence, inner stability. And most importantly, do not leave this state as soon as uttered something from the recommended.
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