Nowadays, many couples break up is not because of the change or bad habits. The main reason - it is normal everyday conflicts. Before starting a quarrel women use psychological attack on a man (simple words "removal of the brain"). How can protect yourself from this?
First we need to understand: "Why does a woman do that?"After all, it makes no sense to shout at the man and spend their emotional strength just. There are several reasons:
The first reason is "the removal of the brain." Many men provoke the weak half of humanity to do so by the fact that most of her words go unheeded. The woman begins to repeat the same thing several times per day. Over time, this behavior becomes a habit.
For example: My wife says to her husband: "Please ruled garbage tomorrow before work and in the evening like going back home, buy bread and milk." The husband nods and assents in response. The next day, I forget everything.
The second reason for "the removal of the brain". Woman likes stability. She needs constant development. Because of this, she had a thousand thoughts: "You have to buy new clothes to fall, make a permutation in the room, dye your hair, put a fence in the country." And when her husband comes home from work, she shared with him my thoughts. But he wants peace and quiet.
The third reason for "the removal of the brain". Dominant demeanor. Woman shouldered leadership relations themselves. She has to deal with external challenges, which seem to press pressed her on all sides. And when she sees her Cute chosen, it is necessary to throw out the accumulated emotional stress. Subliminal she wants him to take himself in hand and grabbed the "baton".
The fourth reason "removal of the brain". When a woman is happy and satisfied with everything it it will not be once again disturb your man. Therefore, 70% of the emotional attacks occur due to chronic dissatisfaction and unhappiness.
Knowing the causes, it is easy to defend against "brain removal" to rectify the situation. But what if you can not eliminate them, and the need to preserve nerve cells remained.
Psychologists recommend to use the following methods of protection from the "removal of the brain"
When pressure from the women do not respond to rude response. This will only aggravate the situation and "rock the boat" even more. Just calmly say, "I do not want to solve the problem in a raised voice or in a way, let's discuss it in a more relaxed atmosphere." If a woman ignores your words and continue to "bomb" the brain, then you have every right to leave the room ( "hang up" mobile). At that moment a woman angry even more, but it will help keep the relationship and protect from saying too much words.
Another psychological course is that the man realized that the "brains endure" not because he is bad, and Because women are badly hurt or scared. He needs to embrace his mate and said: "Calm down dear, you're right. I will decide our problems "and after these words, the woman thought to switch to another positive wave.
These methods have helped to keep the relationship of many couples and may be useful to someone else. Support article "Like 👍", so more people will notice it.
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