Nowadays it is very relevant topic, which concerns the irresponsible men and women is extremely responsible.
For me, the roots of these traits to grow out of the postwar era, when men were few, they went to war, women were left in charge of everything. Not on their own, but still.
Women have learned to be strong and be responsible for everything. Including for what a man should be responsible.
The war ended, someone came back, some do not, someone came back not quite healthy and in general a man of about 50 ago it was less. And the woman was forced to close to a lot of men's functions.
Many had children and additionally helps her husband with a disability. And someone left without a husband.
Those lucky enough to meet with War healthy man was not enough. They are valued, be respected, admired. Deservedly!
But here's the paradox of this whole situation in our time grown men who have hitherto believed that they need to be admired, that they should be respected and they can afford to do what they want, or nothing do.
But the war is over for a long time, and behavioral attitudes between the sexes remained the same.
I'm not talking about the hard-working men who provide for their families and they really can be proud of.
I am a freeloader and idlers, that adapt to the female sex, and begin to work with them in order to secure a comfortable life.
Such men shamelessly live on the money the wife / mother / grandmother. Do not shun tisnut money on a bottle or sell something in the quiet of the house.
And these men are literally forced to take out loans to women, to somehow make ends meet. But most of all, they just do what they want, and by hook or not hook trying to achieve.
Since they themselves are bad know how to make, in the course are the manipulation of divorce women.
And so, in the end, you give up and take out a loan to buy him a laptop / new smartphone / car. He swears that he will pay you believe.
In fact, it appears that very reason.
Now, in addition to your primary concern, you still hanging and credit.
All the exhortations that you promised, and all in this spirit with these do not work.
Just remember once and for all - a normal, healthy man never under any circumstances will not persuade you to take a loan.
He will get out himself.
Exceptions such cases is as a disease or contingencies. business collapse.
BUT! He will never ask. And, first of all, think about you and your safety. That you will be one on one, if that happens with this loan.
And if he loves you, he will not allow it.
The beloved wants to protect and preserve, not to breed for money.
So, ladies. Do not take loans for women, so as not to spoil the relationship, and not to humiliate the male ego. They will cope.
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