How to keep love in a couple, if you have a joint business

Joint business with her husband has advantages - you get the most reliable business partner you can trust. However, there are also disadvantages: your working day never ends, operational issues are resolved around the clock, but the workers are transformed into personal conflicts.

How do you make sure that your joint business did not destroy your marriage and did not kill love?

1. Constantly work on relationships. All available in your pair of conflicts will negatively impact on the overall business and operational differences - exacerbate the troubles in his personal life. If possible, visit a psychologist and workshops for couples.

Before you start the overall business, think in advance correspond to both of you that you will see each other 24 hours a day? If one of the partners will play a leading role in the business - Are second to obey him? These questions need to decide and negotiate "on the bank."

2. Agree on the distribution of profits. DEven if one of you - the boss, and the second - a subordinate, your paycheck goes into one family budget. That is why you need to clearly define how you distribute profit and that everyone gets the money (and what).

3. Separate personal and business hours. A natural way to do this will not work, because work items are personal score. As a result, even your bed will turn into a negotiation. Simply select the time in your schedule that is dedicated only to each other and / or just family matters, children. Forbid yourself in this period of time to contact the working points and discuss them with each other. "Nonworking" communication with her husband should be in your daily schedule.

4. Separate the quality of each other's work and personal. You can admire the obstinacy of her husband in an effort to assemble furniture for home - and out of himself with anger when he shows his obstinacy in business matters. Once you come to love him for a measured calm character - and now the blame for the slowness of the work.

Reasoned and calmly talk about what your qualities and prevent or help you in a common cause. Perhaps, for the sake of the business the two of you will be able to slightly adjust their behavior is at the operating time, but to be themselves in the rest of the time.

5. Listen to each other. If a common cause - you need to be able to listen and hear each other, to accept criticism, to respect the opinions of others. It is, in principle, it is important for any couple relationship - not only for general business. However, working together creates additional tests - and to keep love, need to be especially sensitive to each other.

6. Stop gloss over the negative, but it voiced constructively. If in your personal life you would prefer not to talk about what you do not like, not to create a conflict in the relationship, then the joint work it leaves sideways. It is important not to wait inside the "scum", and calmly and constructively discuss issues as they arise. And focuses on the fact that you are unhappy with a particular behavior in specific situations, rather than blaming the fact that he "always", "never" and "general".

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