We continue the cycle of stories from real life to overcome the crisis and the renewed sense of family relations. The following heroes of our stories - Dmitry and Xenia, who as a gaming model chosen way to change places with each other. Find out what came of it.
Recall Website kolobok publishes a series of articles onwriter Alexander Polivaeva. Alexander has collected stories from the lives of different couples who managed to overcome the routine relationships and transfer them to a new, more successful level. Each story - is a unique game model to overcome the crisis, which invented and lived a man and a woman, and not only managed to preserve their alliance but also to refresh the senses. Perhaps some of the gaming models will suit your pair.
Today we publish the second article series titled "Instead of you."
The following heroes of our stories - Dmitry and Xenia. Both 33, married 12 years. Guys once remarked that stopped paying attention to what everyone thinks of them in fact, and what really is interested.
As said Dmitry, here is a picture of the person as a whole - an image that you like and which was used, and the other nuances are not so noticeable, but they are no less important. It was therefore decided to live one day solely from the perspective of a loved one, to look at the usual things in the first person! That is, the next day, Dmitry was the brain and the body became Xenia - executor of his will. What came of it?The next day, the experimenters woke up a little to lie in bed, turned on him Xenia TV channels went through as he spoke, stopping at one, then the other... Nothing sort of! Then dressed Dmitry led to the kitchen and made breakfast, fed him with a spoon, looking intently at him, his face - he eating like chewing... not every time so consider carefully how you powered dear man, as it enters the food, ensuring its a life. After breakfast, she bought Dmitri (for many it is not uncommon), but brush your teeth - was not such a simple exercise, although it is explained in detail on what technology does. Have you ever brush your teeth to another person? And if you loved? Shave... decided not to shave, do not risk it.
After the morning rituals, they sat down at a laptop and Xenia, as a full member on behalf of Demetrius, came on those pages that he pointed out, read the news that he had requested, view messages in social networks and meet what he said - wrote under his dictation. It gave? She would like to hit a favorite thought - she learned that he was interested, he thinks that is responsible that the information from a huge variety - attracted him most. Usually surfing the social networks does not provide for discussion, we do it all on the machine, without analyzing - what and why and, even more so, without discussing it with others. Therefore, Xenia has made a lot of discoveries in the cognitive outlook Dmitry. He looked not already somewhat differently.
The pair then went for a walk in the park and together they rode the rides that are so popular and Dmitry, some of which has so far avoided Xenia. The café of the park instead of pizza and ice cream, as it usually happens, they took 200 grams of barbecue and frosty vodka, because that's what wanted to Dmitry. Xenia had never really liked vodka and even more so in the afternoon, in the park, but today had to transcend themselves and... in general, she liked it! What will happen next? Buy shiny fat belyashi on the market, which is so fond of Dima? Never!)
In the evening they, of course, watching football! Xenia pours cold beer and clean for your favorite fish, sometimes clumsily cursing at players and judge at the command of Dmitry.
This was the day for the girls, which allowed her to make some useful conclusions about life and unspoken preferences spouse.
And the next day she was recouped in full on it. He painted her, and talked to her friends in the messenger, and was flipping through instagram, and read the articles in women internet and cooking soup, and watched movies, which before being sober mind, it is hardly ever I agreed.
These two days significantly updated and animated representation of each of each other, they become more aware of each other. Now, when one sat on the internet and the other in the kitchen - they both understand about what is happening there and how. Guys are better capture and interpret the mood of each other, especially when it was difficult to talk out loud - at a party or somewhere else. They have fewer resentments, quarrels and misunderstandings, because each of them was free to look at the problem from the perspective of the other.
In general, it was decided to repeat such days at least once every six months, to timely track all changes in the tastes and interests of others, and always be on the same wavelength!
Try it once and you! With nothing comparable experience!
Read the following article in the cycle next Monday, and while you might be interested to read the first cycle history How to update the relationship and return the love: the secret love again.
