If a family suddenly there was a time to doubt, and you start to play with the idea that your marriage can be regarded as a failure, do not rush to conclusions, but... better look at the calendar. Scientists have discovered two months, in which the risk of divorce increases dramatically.
A study of family life of several million couples scientists at Washington University led to the conclusion that there are two of the most dangerous for the preservation of the family in terms of the year. And one of them we have already reached.
CURVE DIVORCES
Examining the curve of divorces from 2001 to 2015, a sociology professor Julie Brayns and PhD Brian Serafini found that most "cursed" months for the spouses - it is March and August.
As explained SCIENTISTS?
They suggest it's all about - in the false belief that couples confer on the summer and winter. And when these bright special seasons are completed, have not brought the long-awaited joy, the couple go to court with an application for divorce.
WHY winter and summer?
Because the winter - it is Christmas, New Year, Valentine's Day, winter break. And everyone wants a holiday, some extraordinary emotions, recreation, skiing, children's delight of winter fun. Summer - it's vacation, sea, beach, river, picnics, biking, coffee on the terrace...
The arrival of both the season we associate with the new cycle of optimism. We feel a new surge of hope that the update will happen in life.
That the "bottom line"?
Winter is over, comes the March (or leaves and summer starts in August). If expectations are not fulfilled - the vacation was wasted, or it did not exist, no new positive family memories, then a thought: Is there in this "race at the wheel of" any sense? Maybe, in this family, with this partner I have so no good and never will? Maybe it's time to change the life, to start from scratch?
Nature, too, is changing dramatically in the spring and fall, but the person next - this is not a coat that is not so easy to throw off the yoke. Or maybe give each other another chance to enjoy the warmth of the fireplace in the cold or the sun by the sea?
