For many parents voprosseksualnogo education deteystanovitsya taboo subjects that subsequently delivers a lot of problems for the child and their socialization in the society. After imposing a taboo on it is a natural part of human life, we spontaneously generates a set of complexes.
The very first moments when the child pays attention to gender identity - is the study of his own body in the first year of life. He can feel and clutches his genitals just out of curiosity, and forbid him not to do it. By the way, if the baby later in life pulls hands to the genitals, it is also not an aberration, but is signal for parents to pay attention to hygiene and physical health, possibly because the baby there just itching originated from diaper rash.
If we talk about the first child questions about how he was born, then it all depends on the age. Until about three years it is realistic to escape a small fairy tale, no anatomical details. However, stories about storks and cabbage to get involved is not necessary, it is better stick version includes an abstract description of the process of pregnancy. In five or six years, baby. who knows that he came into this world from his mother's tummy may be interested in how he got there. In this case, a good response would be to tell a child that he has always been there, just waiting for sleep when he was awakened by the pope, giving mom a piece of themselves.
Ranging from ten to twelve years and, prior to the beginning of adolescence, it is necessary to educate the child in a more detailed form. Useful sovet- use scientific films about the man and his body, or encyclopedias for teenagers. Thus you will not only give an exhaustive answer, but also prepare the child for how to change his body and character in the next few years.
First of all, do not need to shy away from the baby and its issues, otherwise it will not look for answers in the appropriate location. Also, do not arrange a large family council with a detailed story, let all the information the child receives gradually and unobtrusively.
