Some of the couple getting married and loving look happy on your wedding day, but their union may soon collapse. On what grounds can understand that marital happiness is short-lived?
Unfortunately, divorce statistics in our country is not happy: 10 marriages accounted for 7 - 8 divorces. Why it happens? The reasons may vary, but experts have identified for some "alarm bell" is possible to determine that the Union will soon fall apart. The most common are the following.
The reasons why the break up of the family
Which leads to the breakdown of relationships / istockphoto.com
Which leads to the breakdown of relationships / istockphoto.com
1. Young age at marriage
For example, psychologists have determined that early marriages are falling apart faster than those in which they enter into a more conscious age. It is connected with the boyish young lovers, their unwillingness to compromise and hormonal surges.
2. Underemployment husband at work
Whatever the reason is not absurd this would seem at first glance, but the lack of spouse employment negatively affects the relationship of the pair. the causes of conflict and the consequences of divorce are financial and domestic issues, where the husband earns is not enough and does not want to share household duties in connection with the presence of free time.
3. Lack of education
Surprisingly, but the lack of higher education have a negative impact on family relationships. The stumbling block in this situation are the low level of income and lack of wisdom spouses.
4. Disrespecting a spouse (spouse)
Disrespecting partners to each other often lead to arguments and divorce / istockphoto.com
Psychologists have identified four main reasons that lead to divorce - it's contempt, criticism, self-sacrifice and blocking calls. All of these behaviors destroy relationships and condemn their fast break.
5. stormy passion
If the relationship and start a family is too passionate and sensual, then after a few years of marriage, the flame of love fades. To maintain the same level of sexual activity is almost no possibility, so partners lose interest in each other. A moderate emotionality at the dawn of life together, over time, increase the mutual attraction of the spouses. Such marriages are longer.
6. Stress and emotional burden
Trouble at work, difficulties in career or business, failures and stress are bad for 'weather in the house "and the relationship between the spouses. If you pour out all negativity at his partner, then at some point he will not stand loud and slam doors.
7. conflict avoidance and concealment of problems
When a conflict is brewing, and one of the couple is trying to explain and to dot the "i" in a difficult situation, and the second avoids discussion and explanation of the relationship, it is an alarming bell your marriage. Couples with unresolved conflicts and grievances are often protracted decay and did not understand the true causes of quarrels and insults partner.
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