Few people at the wedding draws attention to the photographers, they, in turn, to notice any detail, for which can almost accurately predict in advance whether newly married family life happy. Of course, they are not experts on the psychology of relationships, but they have the opportunity to observe different pairs through the lens for a few hours, allowing them to compare, analyze and make conclusions.
We compared the findings of wedding photographers and opinion about this family psychologists and came to interesting conclusions, which we hasten to share with you.
reluctance to be photographed
A newlywed feels awkward, he turns away and does not want to look into the lens. Confusion front of the camera - it is quite normal, but it also happens that one of the partners in the flatly refuses to do photos, what he is asked to compromise and give your significant other does not want to be photographed, and even threatened photographer. Recent argue that such marriages usually last no more than a year, or even several months.
Together with them, and psychologists. They say that the ability to compromise security of a happy family life.sarcastic jokes
Some newlyweds like to do a photo in which one of the partners is presented in a ridiculous or absurd as, for example, force-fed cake, threatened by a kitchen utensil or pulls the hair. Photographers say that couples who insist on these photo shoots are at risk. Psychologists believe that this is true. Criticism, contempt, resentment and lack of respect for the partner - the best way to get a divorce.
The minimum number of photos of the bride and groom together
Practically photo shoot consists of a photo of the groom and his friends, relatives and guests and the bride captured with their girlfriends? This alarm bell, say wedding photographers. Psychologists can not agree with them: the desire to be together, to touch each other, shared interests, shared responsibilities and rituals strengthens marriage. And if no such desire, the situation is quite sad.
Excessive preoccupation with the celebration
Typically, the super-idea the perfect wedding at all costs inherent brides. In such cases, it is kept under constant control of all and any little thing can cause her anger and irritation, which necessarily will result in the second half. it also requires the photographer to remove it in all five dresses and in all possible angles, while the bridegroom smokes on the sidelines.
According to psychologists like selfishness and perfectionism, multiplied by an inability to prioritize (A wedding - it's only the beginning, the celebration is over and the family life begins) is not the best companions happy marriage.
We are the bride and groom
The bride's face at the moment when the groom says it (and vice versa) which froze ridicule, shame and other negative feelings, according to wedding photographers are not uncommon. They are sure that this does not predict anything good marriage.
According to psychologists, only couples who treat each other with mutual respect can count on the "golden" wedding.
look closely at Photo 9 of the royal wedding, which shocked the world. What do you think, will their marriage be long and happy.
