People meet, people fall in love, get married. And then come back to the registrar for the divorce. Get married in general, it is not difficult. But manages to build a happy family is not much. How do you know that this man needed to raise a family?
It is important before marriage do not console yourself that the person would change after the wedding for the better. Often the opposite is true, half relaxes and gives even more disadvantages. So how to identify the right one? There are several signs in a relationship that point to your mate.
You do not play a role.Ask yourself if you need to pretend, to bestow on a man? Do you play the role of a diligent housewife, but hate to cook? Or you have to pretend that you're crazy about rock music, although most ears fold into a tube? If you need to pretend you're not happy with this man. Another thing, when he takes you for who you are. And you accept this without trying to alter.
You have no "sekretikov". line communication - clear and understandable. There is a problem: sit, discuss, decide. You do not need to hide their deeds from you, and he does not hide anything from him. Because he knows that he will understand and with all the nuances.
Words of love coincide with the actions.Man makes you hurt, and then he says that he loves you? Flee from it. Love - this story is not about pain and about joy. love words must be supported by actions, and not to contradict them.
You - partners. Long gone are the days when a woman was the keeper of the hearth, and the man wore a mammoth cave. Now family - a team in which everyone - individual player. In these respects there is a maximum of freedom, confidence, and personal growth of each is welcomed and supported.
You respect each other. This may also include respect for the past. Love can fade away, the beauty will fade, hands will be covered with wrinkles, but the scars of the nasty words about the second half dragged for a long time. Respect - one of the main whale on which to build a strong family. It's like a thread on which a bead is pushed to get a necklace.
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