There are habits that seemingly appear healthy. But in fact, they subtly destroy relationships inside and lead to rupture. What is this habit?
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Dissolve in each other
Sometimes, only one person is dissolved in a partner. Sometimes it is done by both partners. They forget about their habits, pleasures and passions. They go everywhere together: brush their teeth together, dine together, travel together. God forbid that someone wanted to go somewhere alone or with friends. You together, but that does not mean that you have the same life. You can have different interests and even biorhythms. This behavior in the style of "inseparable" creates a load for both partners, and leads to a desire to skim quickly.vent anger
The chief shouted at you, the partner broke the deadline, the car struck the wheel and stained skirt in the crowd... You boil, anger accumulated, and now a partner at hand. Why does not he remember what he always does everything badly? Venting a bad mood on the partner, you are learning to cut his life. This attitude, when one or both are the "whipping boy", no one will like. Moreover, you will begin to believe themselves that the second half - the root of evil. And then you can say goodbye to the relationship.
gloss over problems
Are you offended by the second half, but his questions ignore. You do not like it when he was not warned that delayed, but not a word you do not tell him. Accumulating problems and resentment is not going away. This will end all grandiose scandal ohladevshimi and feelings. And there, and not to break away.
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revenge
Your partner was late? Nothing, nothing, you are too late for him to know how it is unpleasant! He offended you? And you hit him more painfully. In these respects the rule of "an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth." They turn into constant competition and harassed by both sides.be intrusive
Call 10 times a day, to throw sms and messages in social networks, constantly ask: Does your partner eat, put a cap if not cold to him that he had to work. It's very annoying adults. You can be in touch, but not necessarily be intrusive.
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