Everyone knows that a person's character is laid solid foundation in early childhood. Quite a few factors have a direct impact on its formation. However, parental influence, in particular, their mistakes in raising his child could have irreparable consequences for his future.
Still quite close to the present day, it was thought that the main thing in the upbringing of the child to be dressed and shod fed - these are the most important and basic obligations that had to perform every self-respecting parent.
Current practice shows that this is not the most important in shaping a child's personality. Often it is the lack of love in the presence of all other material benefits rarely gives the opportunity to be a happy person during adulthood. Therefore it is extremely important to any parent to know that in addition to the physical needs of the child, such as food, water, shelter and hygiene, it is still in need of emotional support adults in their love and care. Just giving your child the love every day, you can be sure that the seed will be sown happy man in it thoroughly.
Human well nedolyublennosti childhood into adulthood can be easily recognized by certain characteristics.
Lack of trust
Quite often you can find already-formed adult person who is either very few people trust or not trust absolutely no one. Nedolyublennosti adult subconsciously expects all associates of a trick.
Low self-esteem
Complexes laid in childhood, "thanks to" his parents, which exert their effects throughout the life itself is not taught unconditional love for a child. Diffidence blocks true desires to enroll in the university, which wants to take up the post, which will bring more revenue. And all because a person with low self-esteem is at the lower resistance path, choosing the easier path, since he believes that with more complex tasks it can not cope.
Lifelong bad luck and growing problems
Each person among friends can meet such challenges which are growing like a snowball. In any case begun by the impression that all is unfolding against him. In fact, his "bad luck" - is a direct projection nedolyublennosti his parents. Those unpleasant situation, which gets people motivated by wrong decision, as It is the parents at an early age instilled a little child that he is doing wrong (in their opinion).
Dissatisfaction in relationships
Children whose childhood nedolyubili parents often can not build, and his personal life, as his partner, they are always trying to prove that they are good. The second half of this feels a mile away, and can always take advantage of this situation. Often nedolyublennosti children in adult life change their partners to collect from each of grains of the love that they do not Doda parents. A completely different scenario will develop if an adult person will truly love and value yourself - the same attitude and it will get to him.
physical discomfort
Many diseases, especially chronic, have certain conditions of their occurrence, as physical discomfort often associated with mental imbalance, whose roots go deep in childhood.
"Nevzroslenie"
Children who nedolyubili parents in childhood, unconsciously do not want to grow up. They believe that their parents life something must therefore rarely get a job. Often they behave immorally, suffering from many dependencies. Rarely marry, since they are constantly craving there dopoluchit parental love. It is ironic that many of the children until the end of life and stay connected with their parents unbreakable umbilical cord due nedolyublennosti from their parents.
mental discomfort
It sometimes happens that a person has everything in life develops, and everything seems to be good, especially in material terms, but a person constantly feels emotional pain, anxiety, restlessness. It happens that a small circumstance may open the bleed, which has failed to scar over my entire adult life.
Give love to your children, and they grow up truly happy people!
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