The man - a social being. Nothing brings us so much as communion. We hurry to share the latest news with friends, or share their joys and sorrows of family.
In addition, in recent years, the concept of personal is very blurry, we share our plans and important events of life, not only with friends but also with strangers (or even strangers) people from social networks. Especially when we are happy to have achieved something, do something important from our point of view. We want to found out about it and was glad for us the whole world. And did you know this folk wisdom: "The praise, and without staying?" Therefore, in some cases it is better to remain silent.
your plans
Better to let people judge you on your deeds and not on your plans. The more energy you spend talking about his plans, the less remains for their implementation. In addition, not all people will treat you conceived approval - someone finds your plans and unrealistic treat them with skepticism, while others criticize envy that such a good idea came to mind not his. And even if you are confident in their abilities, foreign skepticism and negativity is able to cool your ardor.
Good deeds
If you are engaged in charity work, helping someone, do not brag done. Otherwise - it is not a good thing, and make-up for the ego, which helps you feel better than others. No wonder the Bible has the following lines: "your Father who sees in secret, will give thee openly." And Indian sages say that there is nothing that kills a charity, as pride. Good thing for show, is not admired, and sneer.
austerity
Self-discipline is a useful thing. Sometimes you need to force yourself to do exercises, pour cold water, limit in food or sex. But here is to talk about your diet or how rough life you lead, it is not for nothing. You do it for yourself, to harden his body or spirit, to lose weight for the summer, or to improve their health, and not to feel more spiritual and willed to the surrounding background.
spiritual knowledge
You do some spiritual practices - pray, meditate, practice yoga, and so on.. Your internal changes soon, and so will be apparent to others, and to show his superiority, flatter the ego truly spiritual person will never become.
Courage and heroism
Let your actions on a desire to tell those around. The one who really suffered in life tests, most likely will not talk about them at every corner. As they say: "Thunder only an empty bucket." A person who is full of life wisdom and experience, will not brag about it.
Family conflicts
Of course, you can ask for advice on how to behave in a given situation, to get out of family conflict with a close person, whose opinion is really important to you. But, first, do not try this at blacken your other half, as far as possible honestly state the facts, not vygorazhivaya themselves. In the conflict, as you know, blame the two, although the degree of guilt may be different. And, secondly, bound by this, unable to endure what is happening in the public trial of all friends, acquaintances, relatives, and my friends in social networks. As you know, dirty linen in public can not tolerate.
About the mistakes of others
Each of us has a certain amount of energy that we often spend on all the small stuff, and as a result begin to ache. So, idle talk and gossip "eat" a huge amount of our vitality. Try not to get involved in any conversations that you do not have a relationship, especially with a negative connotation. For example, discuss the mistakes behind a common friend, or a courtesy hold a conversation with her grandmother at the bus stop, all expensive and a hard life has become. Harmony and love you!
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