This adults know that all diseases of the nerves. Children do not have such knowledge, but suffer 80% of emotion - so say the psychologists. What is psychosomatic? And why get sick often children?
"But what about the virus?" - you ask. Viruses and bacteria play a role of a trigger mechanism. This phenomenon explains why some children met with the same disease, not sick, while others long sick even ordinary SARS.
Psychosomatics - trend in medicine and psychology, studied the effect of emotions on our body. Ever since the days of ancient Greece was spread the idea of the relationship of body and soul, and their influence on each other.
Why do children suffer?
Are children can also experience emotions that cause disease? Yes! Kids like no suppress emotions. "Do not cry, you're an adult, not hysterical - so ugly, how dare you mad at me?" - the child is placed a ban on the expression of emotions. They accumulate in the body and come out with the help of disease.
frequent coryzacan talk about repressed tears.
Parental overprotection leads to the fact that the child literally "strangle" care. here bronchitis and asthma.
Mom's low custody when the child is left to himself, leads to the fact that a stressful situation, he can not "digest". This will result in all problems with the digestive system.
Permanent bans entail sore throat. The child can not be protesting. From this "lump" in the throat and the diseases associated with that body.
of parents
Family relationships are very influenced by the emotional state of the child. Frequent quarrels that children can not adequately survive, poured in adenoiditis and otitis. The child literally could no longer hear it - hence the pain in the ear.
If on the basis of his illness the parents reconciled and adequately communicate, he can begin to use this tool for the reconciliation of the parents. It turns out the hidden subliminal benefit from disease. So in the family appears often ill child, who literally "tie" to her parents.
The same reaction occurs in the case of zadarivaniya him during his illness presents or additional bonuses: cartoons all day, for example. Agree, a great incentive to get sick.
No single parents
If you think that you need to behave "meek as a lamb" - it is not. The child reads the emotional background, even if with a mind mom and dad calm, like a boa constrictor, and inside - «bubbling volcanoes».
Of course, parents can do everything possible to the child in the family was comfortable, but strangers will contribute: kindergarten, school, grandma, grandpa. It is not necessary to protect them. The main thing is to create a peaceful environment at home that the child can "merge" and his illnessnot defeated.
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