At work, as in life, you need to follow the progress of their thoughts and speech. After all, one wrong word spoken can play havoc with your destiny, ruining relationships with employees, and even putting into question the prospects of his career.
So, in any case can not be discussed behind their colleagues, and even more so, the authorities: usually found The "good" people who donesut on you, even if your object does not gossip or hear you absolutely right. But a negative impact on your reputation and career may be quite harmless and decent expression, so it is better to remove them completely from your vocabulary.
"I'll try ..." or "I'll try ..."
These phrases indicate that you doubt yourself in their competence and professionalism level or just You do not want to do anything, so in the eyes of the team bosses and you position yourself not with the best side. As a result, you are unlikely to entrust responsible tasks, and as a result of career growth and future jobs and can not think.
"Maybe I'm wrong," or "Maybe I'm wrong"
Similar expressions expose you as insecure person myself, so if they say, be prepared for the fact that no one you seriously will not accept. When you really doubt your knowledge or skills, it is better to say, "I'm sure everything will turn out, but I need a more detailed look into the matter."
"I am not guilty ..." or "It's not my fault"
When problems and difficulties overtaken you in the workplace, you step back and shift the blame on colleagues. As a result, and your reputation will suffer, and relations with employees. It is better to try to suggest ways the situation permits and begin work on the correction of errors.
"I'm for it still does not pay ..."
There are times when you have to perform a job or task, not prescribed by your employment contract. Or you have to go to serve in your day. If you immediately categorically refuse, it is clearly in your favor does not play. Of course, it is not necessary to take everything that you "hang", but sometimes help the mother team is necessary. For refusing choose more delicate phrases, such as "I would have taken your job, but I do not have time with her and have to sit in the office until midnight."
"In the same place we did the work of different"
Similar phrases greatly annoy the bosses, and colleagues too. It's like a family relationship: one can never tell how you did with the last man. If you really want to use your positive experience gained in his previous job, offer it as your original and fresh idea.
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