How to find love: 4 myths that hinder to do

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Many women over the years looking for her man, giving up again and again. Just can not find love? Men are not the same? Perhaps you are sitting in the prejudices that hinder find your soul mate?

It is only in fairy tales, "and they lived happily ever after." In real life, to find a soul mate you need to sweat. Or a whole lot easier? Just stands to get rid of "garbage" in the head, which prevents search of love for many years.

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Myth 1 - you deserve for the best man

We are not talking exchanged for Petya plumbing from next door. Just think, if you are not looking for a prince on a white horse? The woman, looking firmly believes in the doctrine manWhich often does not correspond. There is nothing wrong with that, except that she spends all the time in search of himself. At the same time he forgets to invest in yourself. Agree, is hardly a top manager wants to see next to a silly with pouty lips? He then be led to the fifth the size of the breast, whether it will be enough for a long time to build a good relationship? She Prince should be attractive, but also the latest stock market trends to know well. Or at least a couple of foreign languages.

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Myth 2 - first love yourself
Women believe that to love your neighbor, you can only love yourself first. They do not enter into a relationship until they sort out with him. On the one hand, it is correct. After good work on them, she does not bring in their relationship "cockroaches". On the other - who said you can not love another without loving yourself? Not necessarily to abandon relations to find himself. This can be done in them.

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Myth 3 - can not depend on men

They are all traitors, and it is impossible to predict what angle will fly knife in the back. Therefore, only the independence of a man save the woman. Girls wear armor and enter into a relationship like on the battlefield. Baba with eggs - as they are called in the men's quarters. It's not bad. Nobody says that a woman should totally depend on the partner and look him in the face with an open mouth - what he is cool. Clinic and co-dependence, so would be like a psychologist. But show weakness in matters that can solve man - why not? You do not want? Then do not say that men are extinct.

Myth 4 - it will change for me

Remember! Man never changes for the sake of someone else. It's all a myth! The only one who can push him to change - himself. He himself and the motivator and the magic Pendel. Relations with the promise of "change it for me" always end break. No illusions and do not engage in such. Come on and look for more interesting options.

You will also be interested to learn about 9 types of men who did not get a good relationship.

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