Jealousy is often the cause of discord in relations close as it seemed earlier girlfriends. Sometimes you start to notice that your friend does not share the success. Perhaps it is envy, which can be identified by five key features.
At all, envypushes us to improve and gives impetus to the development. But it can be either white, when envy is associated with joy and admiration for the success of a friend, and black, which cause disorders and even hatred once close friends.
If your beloved girlfriend changed her attitude towards you become more irritable and less time to devote to communicate with you, you should not immediately think that she is jealous of you. Perhaps she had some problem or other circumstances. But envy can take place. On what grounds is it detected?
5 signs that your girlfriend jealous
1. A friend is actively discussing with you your failures and problems, relishes your disappointment and reproach, while joyful events of your life are of little interest to her.
2. It discourages you from taking decisions and actions that can lead you to success. Especially if then makes something from which to dissuade you (for example, it does not dissuade you to invest in a new project because of its riskiness, and she was subsequently successfully completed).
3. Your success, successful marriage and brilliant career girlfriend perceives as good luck and good fortune, rather than as a consequence of your merit and talent and hard work.
4. When communicating with a friend you feel uncomfortable talking about their achievements. This is because the energy you perceive its negative attitude, as if carefully she would not hide.
5.It you to imitate.
How to fight with envy girlfriend
Usually jealousy occurs in people with complexes and low self-esteem. If your girlfriend you the way and lose it you do not want it in any case does not openly tell her that she is jealous of you. It is better to help her become a better and more successful.
So, for example, you notice that your friend is jealous of bright appearance - help her become more beautiful. Envies the career achievements - think about how to help her grow professionally.
But do not pull on all the problems and concerns of the best, as it seems to you, friend. Remember that our environment helps us to grow, and can also restrain the growth, so if your friendship is not "glued" to the recently release once you close girlfriend. Soon in its place a new person appears necessary, which will inspire you to growth and development, and will rejoice together your achievements.
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