"That is soon... and then ..." - you happen to hear such a phrase, or you yourself often to repeat it? Continuation can be anything but one conclusion - the person lives the future, but present. Such syndrome deferred life and why people today are living an "empty" life?
Surely you remember, as a child would grow up as quickly as possible to go to school and become an adult? Then just as we dreamed by the parents to move out and get what you want freedom. Then finally meet him and be happy... Solid "tomorrow" when here and now leaking through his fingers like water. Why is it so dangerous to live with illusions the future and how to fix it?
Middle age crisis- is none other than the realization that the desire to live a rich life and exciting earn millions and do not come true, and in constant pursuit, lost too much time, which not return.
If your days pass like minutes, you can not think of anything worthwhile in the last year, you do not have new emotions and impressions, stop! Before it was too late, begin to live and to live each day of your here and now. Look at the children, their ability to enjoy the little things, notice details and sincere laugh, filled with happiness and joy of his every day.
Do not discount your life. You do things you love, it brings you pleasure and a good income, but your school girlfriend earned Lexus and now you do not sleep at night, feel like a failure, and all ready throw. First of all, stop looking at others, live their lives, have fun with what you do, do it with high quality and success, you will be provided. Praise yourself for even small wins, it will inspire and give strength for new achievements. Do not discount your life and do not leave started halfway just because someone else is get better, this is your way, and the result is worth it to try and take risks, and not constantly look at others.
Spend money on emotion. "When I have the opportunity, I will go to expensive restaurants / go abroad / buy a new car." As long as it comes "when" will be half of life, and will have nothing to remember. Not always emotions and impressions - it's expensive, yes, you can go to Goa, but it is possible to arrange a family trip in nearby town, get out with your loved ones on the weekend in the spa, cycling through the forest or enjoy a latte in a coffee shop at house.
Elevated mood, a desire to be better and performance depends on a person fullness, when there is no life, no energy to even get out of bed in the morning, not to mention more. Money likes to be spent, then they return to the double amount, so do not deprive yourself of the joys of life and positive emotions: go to the movies, sign, finally, in the photo courses, mark their anniversary at a restaurant with friends and gifts, live here and now.
Let your life does not depend on other people. Live the high quality and fully for yourself, not for others, indulge yourself just so, and not because they have to do a manicure, not to be ashamed in front of friends. Do not wait for suitable weather, Monday, New Year's, or something else, is now live. Often single women no longer look after yourself, because "no one to" - it is fundamentally wrong.
You have to live for yourself, first of all, your life and comfort do not have to depend on someone else. Think about your feelings when you are in a new dress, a beautiful hairstyle and neat nails - you feel like a goddess, blinding smile was self-confident and happy. Agree, in this frame of mind is much easier not only to meet your soul mate, but also to build a very successful life as a whole, a life lived for that, you will have something to remember, and not sad breathe. If in the last year you have nothing to remember, think and move the vector of your life with the "then" to "now."
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